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by nebman
Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explaining my chastity device to young kids
Replies: 9
Views: 4633

Re: Explaining my chastity device to young kids

OMG, I just realized that my daughter is 20, and I had the same concerns from when she was little. I've been doing this for way too long... My son is 17 and I was thinking the same thing as you about how I worried when we started this about what to tell him or his brother. Oddly enough, it was neve...
by nebman
Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explaining my chastity device to young kids
Replies: 9
Views: 4633

Re: Explaining my chastity device to young kids

My children are all teens and up. I wouldn't miss a moment with them for the world. So, I keep my device to myself, and only play in environments where the kiddos won't be an issue.
by nebman
Thu Jan 07, 2016 12:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New caged member...
Replies: 10
Views: 3623

Re: New caged member...

I am currently playing around with a hybrid - parts from various modified Chinese crap. It's pretty good in some respects - a very small cage where I'm squished in has made night erections a breeze. After 24 hours I had some minor edema at the base of my penis. At 48 hours it was too much to ignore ...
by nebman
Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: some gay men need chastity too
Replies: 7
Views: 3314

Re: some gay men need chastity too

You're right that, as in the world, most here are not gay. Don't let that discourage you though. I think if you read some of the older post you'll find there's some gays here although they don't seem to stay active. Another thing you'll find is quite a few of these straight guys here have a fantasy...
by nebman
Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Punished for coming!
Replies: 31
Views: 19834

Re: Punished for coming!

Love your avatar braddogg. Your wife?
by nebman
Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone Else Have a Great New Years Eve Like Us?
Replies: 10
Views: 3942

Re: Anyone Else Have a Great New Years Eve Like Us?

We also enjoyed our New Years Eve. After 8 days of long distance travel to see family and sight see - with kids in our hotel room - we got home late New Years eve, the kids went off with friends, we showered, had a few drinks, and played in bed - with me never cumming. While it wasn't discussed, I'd...
by nebman
Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 82
Views: 248591

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

I also appreciate the nature of this sight. My interest in chastity devices was first aroused around 1997. The devices available were expensive and the success of using them for any length of time seemed unlikely, so I didn't even try a device until 2014. There was no femdom or sissyfication industr...
by nebman
Mon Dec 07, 2015 7:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Spreading this wonderful movement
Replies: 25
Views: 8080

Re: Spreading this wonderful movement

I think that the issue is that a chastity device, like a collar, is a very obvious sign that draws innocent bystanders into your kink play. Most naturalists go to those beaches to relax in the sunshine. Tattoos and body jewelry are fairly recent innovations, but are also innocuous. Slap a big steel...
by nebman
Mon Dec 07, 2015 12:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Spreading this wonderful movement
Replies: 25
Views: 8080

Re: Spreading this wonderful movement

[My beloved wife and I had a two weeks holiday on one of the canary islands last month. There is a very long nudists beach where clothed and unclothed people walk along. So did my wife and I,both clothed, when she suddenly decided I should have a swim. I don't have my swimming trunk with me, I said...
by nebman
Mon Dec 07, 2015 12:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Who has gotten started in your 50s
Replies: 43
Views: 14655

Re: Who has gotten started in your 50s

I was about 33 when I discovered the CB series when searching "chastity belt." That was 1997 or so. While I sort of long wanted one, the high cost and doubts about it working well led to a 17 year wait. We spent the next several years having kids, and some worry about keeping things workin...