Chastity Forums

Like Tom Allen, for me, the chastity device rubs a certain "bondage" button. It's like perpetual foreplay when I'm locked up. I've done non-device denial games, and that just seems like celibacy. With the introduction of the device, it feels sexy and fun. That's what chastity play is, for ...

I self-lock, since my wife isn't interested. I can say from my own perspective that having a remote keyholder would be attractive, initially, but would probably lead to problems down the road. Let's face it. Keyholding is about orgasm denial. For most of us, the thing that makes orgasm denial bearab...

I certainly had similar issues at first. I think you'll find that with time it gets better. It's important to remember to get up and pee when the urge hits you at night. For me, that's the main problem. After wearing regularly overnight for a few weeks, I find my midnight wood gets less intense. mik...

LAKH, As an enthusiastic wearer, I guess I question your hubbies interest in wearing the device. When you guys once again have an opportunity to chat again, you might think about these questions. - Is he really INTERESTED in chastity play - the tease and denial thing, or was he just wearing to try a...

Echoing the "Welcome backs!"

mikecb

I've had that happen too. I think it's from the scrotum stretching when you're locked up for any length of time. As suggested, use some lotion.

mikecb

You might try re-reading the instructions carefully to see if they have a note like "If you miskey the password, please wait xxx seconds before trying again". If it only has 10,000 combinations, a very good strategy would be to put a delay between allowable attempts.

mikecb

I just listened to the latest Savage Love podcast (#238). Dan savage fielded a call from a woman who's husband expressed an interest in male chastity. I think Dan did a great job with this call. It begins at 34:52 into the podcast, if you want to give it a listen.

mikecb

1) Is there a good site / forum (such as this one) where I can ask questions and get good information? As Thumper pointed out, BME is the best site. If you buy a membership, you can get access to an enormous gallery. 2) I am looking for pictures to show her. If you do a google image search on "...

Velth, It might also be that your scrotum is simply stretching a little. If you get blueballs occasionally from wearing the device, especially at night, your scrotum will fill with blood and stretch. I know that my scrotum is a little looser than it used to be. I believe it's stretched a little. It ...