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by Shepherdsflock
Sat Dec 17, 2016 7:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone have experience w/ legitimate dominatrix for chastity
Replies: 6
Views: 4372

Re: Anyone have experience w/ legitimate dominatrix for chas

I honestly couldn't imagine paying somebody for this. If it didn't benefit our marriage so much, and if my wife didn't like it so much, I probably wouldn't even want to do it.
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Oct 22, 2016 12:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

You say she wants this as something you do for her, rather than her forcing you into it. You also said you lasted seven months. Congratulations.i would call that a failure. Why does she want permanent chastity? Does she like you locked or just wants you to forgo self pleasure? Have you tried being ...
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Oct 22, 2016 6:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

You say she wants this as something you do for her, rather than her forcing you into it. You also said you lasted seven months. Congratulations.i would call that a failure. Why does she want permanent chastity? Does she like you locked or just wants you to forgo self pleasure? Have you tried being ...
by Shepherdsflock
Thu Oct 20, 2016 11:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

Well, it didn't go very well. She was resistant to the idea of a new device, and specifically said she never wants to see me in "one of those ugly metal ones". I never even brought up piercing.

Namron has a good point, though. Am I really ready to permanently alter my body? I'm not sure.
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Oct 19, 2016 6:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

On a different front, have you presented this to your wife as a possible way to ensure your chastity? Was she excited by the idea? Not yet. I'm on my way home from traveling for work. I'm planning on discussing it with her tonight. She's in favor of a more permanent device that allows good hygiene ...
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Oct 19, 2016 6:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

I healed outside of any cage. I wouldn't recommend healing any other way. Do you think it would be possible to heal inside my Holy Trainer with a barbell and daily cleaning? I spoke with Lori Lancer of Lori's chastity devices and she thought it would be possible, but I want more than one opinion. T...
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Oct 19, 2016 5:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

I'm looking forward to permanent orgasm control and masturbation denial myself. Good luck to you both. My wife encouraged me and took me to get pierced at 8ga 30 months ago. I soon bought my first custom steel device, and after 6 months I was comfortable in 4ga PA secured chastity. I'm wearing my s...
by Shepherdsflock
Tue Oct 18, 2016 12:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

Is it possible to still wear a chastity device while everything is healing and stretching?
by Shepherdsflock
Tue Oct 18, 2016 11:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 20835

Re: Looking for advice on device for permanent chastity

I do want to clarify that by permanent, I mean that I will be permanently chaste but the device may come off for various reasons (air travel, medical, etc.). The device would not be removed any longer than is necessary, but otherwise left on all the time.
by Shepherdsflock
Tue Oct 18, 2016 8:36 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Questions about lockup time
Replies: 15
Views: 6312

Re: Questions about lockup time

It's just my opinion, but I'd leave the keys with her and let her decide when or if you get released and just stay locked up whenever she's not enjoying you.