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by McAndrew
Thu Nov 10, 2011 4:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you like to be spanked
Replies: 43
Views: 12191

Re: Do you like to be spanked

Do you wear a device in the company of other nudists? If so what reactions do you get? Not on a public beach and anyway there are issues with metal in sunshine. However some nudist friends do know, having slowly introduced the subject and watching out for them being freaked. We have done one show a...
by McAndrew
Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:03 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Device Recommendation for New Users
Replies: 10
Views: 8200

Re: Device Recommendation for New Users

I know this is cheap and from China, but if you are just dipping your 'toe' in the water, I found it ideal. It's all stainless steel, it's comfortable, invisible under cloths, well made, there are no issues with cleaning and peeing standing up is easy. As mentioned in several places here, being very...
by McAndrew
Thu Nov 10, 2011 10:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you like to be spanked
Replies: 43
Views: 12191

Re: Do you like to be spanked

I quite like the idea and the submissive aspect, but the actual punishment does nothing for me. Whereas my wife loves applying a few slaps and acting out being dominant. She keeps a running total of what I am due. It's all right while it's playful, but soon wears thin. Especially as we are nudists a...
by McAndrew
Thu Nov 10, 2011 10:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tease and denial
Replies: 3
Views: 2030

Re: Tease and denial

It took a few experiences with my wife for her to realize that with me, I cannot do what she wants and just "not cum." Many years ago, before we had even heard of male chastity, my wife liked to control when I came and so quickly learnt what my limits were and so she doesn't expect non-st...
by McAndrew
Wed Oct 26, 2011 2:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Lite
Replies: 9
Views: 3550

Re: Chastity Lite

poor wrote:Rubbish?! Because she has found a way of accommodating your kink that doesn't meet your expectations?
Whatever.

One of the problems I have, is a shockingly low tolerance of being rubbished on forums.
by McAndrew
Wed Oct 26, 2011 3:35 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Steelworxx Steelheart Questions
Replies: 77
Views: 37788

Re: Steelworxx Steelheart Questions

They do a hinged version. Anyway I've found the a correct fitting ring isn't as difficult to get on as you would think. Just put things through one at a time and it does help to warm your tackle up a bit first, so that you are hanging lose. However I've always worried about what would happen in an '...
by McAndrew
Tue Oct 25, 2011 3:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Lite
Replies: 9
Views: 3550

Re: Chastity Lite

Thanks for the welcome. I've learnt quite a bit from lurking here and I'll see if I can add something. The first thing is that my wife is a rubbish key holder. Once she's enjoying herself it's anything I want, so long as I don't stop. So now at the start of the day she uses a dice to decide if I com...
by McAndrew
Mon Oct 24, 2011 5:09 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where is everyone from?
Replies: 230
Views: 296364

Re: Where is everyone from?

Surrey and Catalonia
by McAndrew
Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Lite
Replies: 9
Views: 3550

Chastity Lite

As I said in my 'Hello' my wife and I love playing with chastity, but mostly only for a couple of months a year, when we are on holiday. Once the thought of sex enters my wife's mind, that's it, she's off. If she doesn't orgasm things turn nasty. This did lead to a feeling of 'here we go again'. How...
by McAndrew
Mon Oct 24, 2011 2:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5530
Views: 2441416

Re: "Hello world" thread

To be honest my wife and I tend to only dabble with chastity, but this is the only place I've found where it seems to be discussed without drifting too far into fantasy. On the other hand this would all be too weird for most forums. So I hope this is the middle ground. Most of the year our sex life ...