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by Steve2059
Fri Jan 06, 2023 5:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cages with urethral tube
Replies: 16
Views: 5310
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Re: Cages with urethral tube

I would love to be tubed as well as caged, and have tried it for short periods - a couple of days - once or twice.

I found it comfortable enough and peeing was much easier, but the deal-breaker for me is the risk of infection.
by Steve2059
Wed Jan 04, 2023 1:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Asking seems simple enough but..
Replies: 25
Views: 7471
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Re: Asking seems simple enough but..

My wife isn't a big communicator, though things are much better than a few years ago, or even before in our vanilla days. Since She took over our sex life as part of our FLR, and the rule is I do as I'm told and what I'm told, and initiate nothing, it's become clear to me that stuff we used to do an...
by Steve2059
Wed Jan 04, 2023 12:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Night Discomfort Issue
Replies: 6
Views: 2272
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Re: Night Discomfort Issue

If you sleep on your front, try pushing the whole package down between your thighs so the ring and cage don't squash everything. A good moisturiser or essential oil goes a long way to keep things from pinching and chafing. My last idea is that if you don't completely keep your genital area shaved, y...
by Steve2059
Thu Dec 15, 2022 7:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
Replies: 7
Views: 3020
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Re: Trying not to TOP from the bottom

I'm in full-time FLR, but it wasn't always like this. Obviously every case is different, but when I was starting out with a less-than-enthusiastic OH, A two-pronged strategy emerged. The issue was that Her perception of my submission was that it created both work and responsibility for Her. The stra...
by Steve2059
Tue Dec 13, 2022 7:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Holiday locking (or unlocking)
Replies: 24
Views: 7169
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Re: Holiday locking (or unlocking)

Currently on honour, but expecting to be caged in the next day or two until 2023. March 21 would be a new record by far, but such a thing would require an hour's freedom from time to time, since She does like the occasional use of Her penis. I'm not sure I'll mention this to Her.
by Steve2059
Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?
Replies: 10
Views: 6278
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Re: Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?

You're like a broken record, mate.
by Steve2059
Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: During the last moments...
Replies: 7
Views: 3540
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Re: During the last moments...

This is why we're kinky! What we do isn't mainstream and must be absolutely baffling to vanilla folk, but we (usually) love it. I might not have orgasms (or at least not conventional orgasms) but I have a helluva lot more sex, just not a lot of PIV missionary sex. From Her point of view she teases m...
by Steve2059
Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to Uncover Like Minded People
Replies: 7
Views: 5216
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Re: How to Uncover Like Minded People

On the question of spilling the beans and letting people know, this is something I think about from time to time. I'm in an FLR and and part-feminised, so part of this is out there because my nails are on show, especially in summer. People sometimes also notice that I'm wearing hosiery when they cat...
by Steve2059
Fri Aug 05, 2022 8:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Surprise question from my wife
Replies: 10
Views: 8196
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Re: Surprise question from my wife

hah! Be careful what you wish for. I expressed a desire to wear panties for sex as a dressing up thing many years ago. My wife wasn't too impressed at first. She got into it after a time, then said I should get my own knickers because I stretched hers, and I built up a collection. Then about three a...
by Steve2059
Thu Jun 23, 2022 9:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?
Replies: 12
Views: 4889
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Re: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?

My wife commands penetrative sex only occasionally and has never wanted a strapon or anything artificial inside her. So it's all me, but not allowed to cum and pulling out immediately She says. She also doesn't like wearing the one we have, so pegging is done by hand. She has a vibrator which She us...