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- Sun Apr 18, 2021 2:21 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dating and chastity advice
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4497
Re: Dating and chastity advice
I've posted in my journal so you can follow the latest developments. Why don't you wear it all the time when she's not there? I know from experience that I need to build up to longer durations. I had to stop early last time, and I have a medical appointment this week, but I'm ready for a week plus f...
- Sun Apr 18, 2021 2:17 pm
- Forum: The Journey
- Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
- Replies: 125
- Views: 579822
Re: [belocked] What have I started?
Things didn't work quite as planned. A minor unrelated medical issue meant that I removed the cage early in the week and had a few days unlocked and feeling less emotional (and yes, I told her). As the weekend approached I asked if I could bring anything and she said (among other things) that she wo...
- Mon Apr 12, 2021 11:18 am
- Forum: The Journey
- Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
- Replies: 125
- Views: 579822
Re: [belocked] What have I started?
Still caged after 3 days so it looks like I'll go the full week and be bursting on arrival. Except that I woke stupid early tonight to find myself pumping away in the cage. Ejaculation without an erection was a messy surprise, and I could stop it easily as soon as I realised what had woken me. Clean...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 11:52 am
- Forum: The Journey
- Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
- Replies: 125
- Views: 579822
Re: [belocked] What have I started?
A week later and it's a weekend when we can't meet. I've been pretty distracted at work thinking about what may happen next weekend, and I kept thinking about her saying that she expects me to be wearing my jailbird when I arrive. I know from past history that it takes time to get used to wearing a ...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 11:40 am
- Forum: The Journey
- Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
- Replies: 125
- Views: 579822
Re: [belocked] What have I started?
Many months have passed since my last update, most of them with nothing new. The occasional self-locking continued but just to get a temporary kick, and it tailed off during the colder weather. Life has changed recently though. To cut a long story short, and to obfuscate a bit too, I started meeting...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 6:59 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dating and chastity advice
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4497
Re: Dating and chastity advice
Our schedules mean we don't get to see each other until next next weekend. My mind was racing yesterday and I decided to put on my jailbird. I mentioned it in passing when we were chatting in the evening but she didn't react. This morning she asked if it was still on (it is) so I know that she's int...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 12:30 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dating and chastity advice
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4497
Re: Dating and chastity advice
I'm recently divorced and have found a new girlfriend. This last weekend was the 4th time I've stayed at her place and i decided to take the plunge. I'd mentioned bondage once before to a reaction "I'm not into it, but I'd be willing to try". So this weekend I brought it up again and she w...
- Tue Oct 06, 2020 11:16 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Chastity in the news
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1147
Chastity in the news
Interesting article on the BBC web site today. I guess chastity is becoming more mainstream, but perhaps this isn't the best way to encourage more people to try it out. https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-54436575
- Mon Sep 28, 2020 11:38 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dating and chastity advice
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4497
Re: Dating and chastity advice
Thanks for the advice so far. I can see that it make sense to bring it up fairly early in a relationship to make sure it's not a show-stopper for her, together with the other mild kinks. Critter228, it's nice to know that someone has been there already and survived. Steve2059, Fetlife sounds an inte...
- Sun Sep 27, 2020 11:05 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dating and chastity advice
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4497
Dating and chastity advice
As I've just posted in my journey, I'm coming out of a divorce and wanting to re-engage with the world. Part of that is dating. I haven't dated in more than two decades so the whole social media part of it is new to me but I can already see the benefits for finding people who might be interested/int...