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I've posted in my journal so you can follow the latest developments. Why don't you wear it all the time when she's not there? I know from experience that I need to build up to longer durations. I had to stop early last time, and I have a medical appointment this week, but I'm ready for a week plus f...

Things didn't work quite as planned. A minor unrelated medical issue meant that I removed the cage early in the week and had a few days unlocked and feeling less emotional (and yes, I told her). As the weekend approached I asked if I could bring anything and she said (among other things) that she wo...

Still caged after 3 days so it looks like I'll go the full week and be bursting on arrival. Except that I woke stupid early tonight to find myself pumping away in the cage. Ejaculation without an erection was a messy surprise, and I could stop it easily as soon as I realised what had woken me. Clean...

A week later and it's a weekend when we can't meet. I've been pretty distracted at work thinking about what may happen next weekend, and I kept thinking about her saying that she expects me to be wearing my jailbird when I arrive. I know from past history that it takes time to get used to wearing a ...

Many months have passed since my last update, most of them with nothing new. The occasional self-locking continued but just to get a temporary kick, and it tailed off during the colder weather. Life has changed recently though. To cut a long story short, and to obfuscate a bit too, I started meeting...

Our schedules mean we don't get to see each other until next next weekend. My mind was racing yesterday and I decided to put on my jailbird. I mentioned it in passing when we were chatting in the evening but she didn't react. This morning she asked if it was still on (it is) so I know that she's int...

I'm recently divorced and have found a new girlfriend. This last weekend was the 4th time I've stayed at her place and i decided to take the plunge. I'd mentioned bondage once before to a reaction "I'm not into it, but I'd be willing to try". So this weekend I brought it up again and she w...

Interesting article on the BBC web site today. I guess chastity is becoming more mainstream, but perhaps this isn't the best way to encourage more people to try it out. https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-54436575

Thanks for the advice so far. I can see that it make sense to bring it up fairly early in a relationship to make sure it's not a show-stopper for her, together with the other mild kinks. Critter228, it's nice to know that someone has been there already and survived. Steve2059, Fetlife sounds an inte...

As I've just posted in my journey, I'm coming out of a divorce and wanting to re-engage with the world. Part of that is dating. I haven't dated in more than two decades so the whole social media part of it is new to me but I can already see the benefits for finding people who might be interested/int...