Chastity Forums

Men, What do you do when you cannot get the fact that you're in chastity off your mind? Or when you've been teased and denied so long and so well that the center of your world seems to be the throbbing in your cock? I am having a difficult time focusing. I go about the tasks I have to do, but the en...

After Saturday morning Melissa and I spent the day together scrubbing the house for Thanksgiving. It was wonderful just being with her and following her instructions and working alongside her. One of the biggest pluses of MC has been the way my eyes have been opened to just how smart, capable, and c...

Hi all, After a rough couple of weeks Melissa and I seem to be getting back on track with MC. Saturday mornings are often our best times for making love and that was the case this weekend. I lay there next to her until I knew she was awake and then I began to caress her breasts through her pajama to...

Everyone has such good thoughts and comments about this. I appreciate your helping me think this through. CQ's Sub - I'm going to check out your blog.

Michael

Good insight CQ - thanks! And glad to have a place to come and talk about these things. Y'all are encouraging to me.

Dev's post kind of tied into something that's been going through my mind lately: is male chastity unmanly? I must admit that one of my fears is that Melissa will eventually see me as weak for wanting her to control me in this way. I think, what if she finds me unmanly? What if she ends up wanting a ...

Well, I know I don't like the sissy blogs and that whole mindset and I'm 99.99% certain Melissa would not too. That is something we are just not in to. Are we female led? I don't think Melissa would say so. I do lead in some areas and she (I think) does in others. For example, she does the budgeting...

While MC is unique to each couple it is amazing how many men on here often feel they could have written each others posts - especially when it comes to their wife not being more involved. When we started six weeks ago Melissa was an enthusiastic participant. She even liked to talk about it with me. ...

So, if I'm 2 1/2" then do you think I should get the cage at 2"? And if I'm 1 1/2" across should it be that or would you recommend a bit smaller?

Thanks,
Michael

I've ordered the sizing rings from Mature Metal and still waiting on the list. In the meantime, I've measured myself several times. I seem to be most often 2 1/2" in length and 1 1/2" across. Is this the size the Jailbird should be?

Michael