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Im not sure grubber. Imho its better to get 1/8" bigger ring and have normal colors always. This is what I am talking about. Happens to me alot with my wife. Same thing happens with some nocturnal erections also. That raging hardon behind the cage. You are going to turn blue no matter what siz...

Turning blue is normal when very aroused as long as everything goes back to normal color when settled down. You have to remember that your penis is struggling to get erect with nowhere to go, so the erection builds up bigger than normal behind the cage, thereby squeezing everything in the base ring,...

wolf513 wrote:

grubber wrote:It's pretty easy to get rid of a lot of her stress if you really try.

Well, that's a pretty bold statement, for not knowing what's stressing her out.

Sorry guy, just trying to help.
Stress does come in many different forms. Just didn't see that one coming like the video.

It's pretty easy to get rid of a lot of her stress if you really try. I always acted the macho type back in the days when sex was basically non-existent. She did all the household chores while I did my "manly" things that I wanted to do. Her plate was always full. Upon discovering chastity...

It's also great for wives who don't enjoy intercourse. My wife has always found intercourse unpleasant, ..... I think that kind of sums up why it is growing in popularity. It gives couples (especially the wife) the freedom to explore things other than intercourse. That's only part of the sum. Anoth...

I suspect that the ridge has one of two purposes: 1. Structural integrity of the tube, 2. An anti-pullout mechanism. If it's #1, then the dremel may compromise the tube. If it's #2, I'll be right behind you. :) First off, the hardest part with chastity is finding a device that works for you. Glad y...

Working from home can be distracting without chastity. It takes a lot of self discipline to work from home and stay motivated to concentrate on the work. I am self-employed. All my working days are different where I may spend a considerable time at home or just the the morning or just the afternoon ...

DLsKnight wrote:I am three days short of 17 months without an orgasm. I do have what we call mental orgasms but, no ejaculation. My wife's "kink" is that control.

Ah! Glad to see someone else living my lifestyle. That wife of yours, she's beautiful isn't she? We're the luckiest guys on the planet.

While indefinite chastity sounds really hot and made me horny, I want feedback from other men (and/or their wives) about what to expect. Good, bad, ugly. What was your experience if you tried something like this? I can't say that I miss full erections that much. I have only been having one per mont...

Tom Allen wrote:

Pinky and the bride wrote: Please include a suggested time to be locked for the next time the lock clicks on me

5 years.

Hey, you started it.

That's a little harsh for a newbie Tom. You should cut him some slack


4 years is a better number.