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by knighterrant
Fri Dec 18, 2015 7:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often
Replies: 17
Views: 5118

Re: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often

I think this is a very common level of sex drive and libido for women in mid-life. That's pretty typical of my KH too, you are far from alone. She accepts that I am always thinking about sex, I'm always horny it goes without saying. What increases our intimacy is when we do things that are romantic ...
by knighterrant
Tue Dec 15, 2015 2:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How's the penis? / How's the cage?
Replies: 5
Views: 1889

Re: How's the penis? / How's the cage?

Are you sure you fully understand her question? She may really be asking how you are doing in the context of chastity? It might be more of an emotional inquiry than a physical one. It could be an opportunity to tell her how you feel and how much you love her for the gift of engaging with you.
by knighterrant
Wed Dec 09, 2015 6:38 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying to get back in the swing of things
Replies: 4
Views: 1393

Re: Trying to get back in the swing of things

I lost my job about a month ago. In the last month I've been kind of depressed and stressed out at times. First of all, we have all been there in one form or another, so sorry to hear about the situation and I hope it turns out to be a life opportunity. I think the mood swings are very well accepte...
by knighterrant
Tue Dec 08, 2015 10:02 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: It fell off (poorly seated) - do I need to worry?
Replies: 3
Views: 1848

Re: It fell off (poorly seated) - do I need to worry?

I would say you are probably on the borderline between a proper fit and too large a gap or base ring. I would continue to wear it and see if it happens again.
by knighterrant
Mon Nov 30, 2015 2:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Reveres Roles
Replies: 17
Views: 5477

Re: Reveres Roles

I'll dream that one with you, but alas I believe it was always be a dream... ;)
by knighterrant
Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is your KH similar to this
Replies: 6
Views: 2583

Re: Is your KH similar to this

Just curious to know … how many others experience is similar to mine as far as the no T&D and no getting your KH off while you're caged? She who holds the key calls the shots. It can be difficult to read about the journeys which include what looks like constant T&D and feel locked and left ...
by knighterrant
Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Punishment
Replies: 11
Views: 5346

Re: Punishment

Disrespect results in a punishment spanking, loss of sexual contact, and longer lockups here. I always regret it, but I still fall in the trap now and then.
by knighterrant
Fri Nov 20, 2015 9:48 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Inciting dominant behaviour
Replies: 6
Views: 2242

Re: Inciting dominant behaviour

Keep the lock mechanism lubricated, it should last a long time. When I think about how to get what one wants from a key holder, I envision a fable about the sun and the wind in competition. They challenge each other to have the man under the sky remove his coat. No matter how hard the wind blows, th...
by knighterrant
Thu Nov 19, 2015 6:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasm Denial vs Penetration Denial
Replies: 13
Views: 5633

Re: Orgasm Denial vs Penetration Denial

To each his own. Chastity play is whatever you make it. Personally, penetration denial is not something I have sought out, and I am glad my KH enjoys penetration. I do see your point, for me to be denied penetration would also be more drastic than to be denied climax. In our relationship, FLR is the...
by knighterrant
Wed Nov 18, 2015 4:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Preventing ring slippage
Replies: 2
Views: 1201

Re: Preventing ring slippage

This is partially governed by personal anatomy of the scrotum. The generic factor is only fit in my opinion. The most restrictive fit possible that restricts erection immediately reduces this effect, I would think in most everyone. Hence it leads to a discussion of pro's of custom fit devices.