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- Fri Dec 18, 2015 7:43 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often
- Replies: 17
- Views: 5118
Re: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often
I think this is a very common level of sex drive and libido for women in mid-life. That's pretty typical of my KH too, you are far from alone. She accepts that I am always thinking about sex, I'm always horny it goes without saying. What increases our intimacy is when we do things that are romantic ...
- Tue Dec 15, 2015 2:54 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: How's the penis? / How's the cage?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1889
Re: How's the penis? / How's the cage?
Are you sure you fully understand her question? She may really be asking how you are doing in the context of chastity? It might be more of an emotional inquiry than a physical one. It could be an opportunity to tell her how you feel and how much you love her for the gift of engaging with you.
- Wed Dec 09, 2015 6:38 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Trying to get back in the swing of things
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1393
Re: Trying to get back in the swing of things
I lost my job about a month ago. In the last month I've been kind of depressed and stressed out at times. First of all, we have all been there in one form or another, so sorry to hear about the situation and I hope it turns out to be a life opportunity. I think the mood swings are very well accepte...
- Tue Dec 08, 2015 10:02 am
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: It fell off (poorly seated) - do I need to worry?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1848
Re: It fell off (poorly seated) - do I need to worry?
I would say you are probably on the borderline between a proper fit and too large a gap or base ring. I would continue to wear it and see if it happens again.
- Mon Nov 30, 2015 2:44 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Reveres Roles
- Replies: 17
- Views: 5477
Re: Reveres Roles
I'll dream that one with you, but alas I believe it was always be a dream...
- Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:43 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Is your KH similar to this
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2583
Re: Is your KH similar to this
Just curious to know … how many others experience is similar to mine as far as the no T&D and no getting your KH off while you're caged? She who holds the key calls the shots. It can be difficult to read about the journeys which include what looks like constant T&D and feel locked and left ...
- Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:33 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Punishment
- Replies: 11
- Views: 5346
Re: Punishment
Disrespect results in a punishment spanking, loss of sexual contact, and longer lockups here. I always regret it, but I still fall in the trap now and then.
- Fri Nov 20, 2015 9:48 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Inciting dominant behaviour
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2242
Re: Inciting dominant behaviour
Keep the lock mechanism lubricated, it should last a long time. When I think about how to get what one wants from a key holder, I envision a fable about the sun and the wind in competition. They challenge each other to have the man under the sky remove his coat. No matter how hard the wind blows, th...
- Thu Nov 19, 2015 6:11 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Orgasm Denial vs Penetration Denial
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5633
Re: Orgasm Denial vs Penetration Denial
To each his own. Chastity play is whatever you make it. Personally, penetration denial is not something I have sought out, and I am glad my KH enjoys penetration. I do see your point, for me to be denied penetration would also be more drastic than to be denied climax. In our relationship, FLR is the...
- Wed Nov 18, 2015 4:46 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Preventing ring slippage
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1201
Re: Preventing ring slippage
This is partially governed by personal anatomy of the scrotum. The generic factor is only fit in my opinion. The most restrictive fit possible that restricts erection immediately reduces this effect, I would think in most everyone. Hence it leads to a discussion of pro's of custom fit devices.