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Something you can try is be very candid about your feelings. That you're excited, but also nervous to talk to her, for fear of pushing her away, when you enjoy so much how your relationship is evolving. Or whatever is true for you, of course. If you have fears, voice them. Being vulnerable towards y...

Right, thanks for pointing out that we all have different ideas of what "masturbation" is. Usually it does mean "to the point of orgasm". In my world, masturbation is any stimulation of my genitals that could lead to orgasm - so stroking, tens units, vibrators, etc. Your mileage ...

Welcome Medstudent21 ! I think it's important to mention that "Chastity Forums is not a pickup site." It's core to who we are. What that means is we are always here to discuss chastity, how it works for people, we have a journal section for the personal journey, and so on. What we are not ...

> There's some successes and some failures. Failures is how you learn, learn what works and what doesn't, what to do and what to do differently and what not to do. Failure is great, as long as it is met with reflection, a search for cause, and a plan to try again. Listen to any successful inventor a...

Congratulations! That sounds awesome in every way. It's completely normal that this is hard for you. You are changing decades of behavior, where you could masturbate and come whenever you wanted. Very early, I'd get pissed. I am due an orgasm, dammit! I used a "denial mantra" to get me ove...

Thank you for that, sklavenAJ ! That was a hot read. I have wondered, idly at times, how T interacts with orgasm denial. For the most part, this seems to be true: People with female genitals are better off with more orgasms; people with male genitals are better off with fewer orgasms, particularly i...

Thank you for being part of our non-judgmental, supportive online community, @Excited+Scared1 !

Beard Retraining to not masturbate takes time and patience. What worked for us was making it into our daily routine: At bed time Bear will ask me how I did, and if I did not masturbate, praise me for it. I tell him I give myself to him, he tells me he shares himself with me. If I did masturbate, he...

Hello @sklavenAJ ! I hear you on "why mess with plumbing that works". I think using that as the default is a good idea, I'm with Angel there.

I'll just tag @Grwl to this.