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by Shepherdsflock
Sat Dec 24, 2016 9:28 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

My wife doesn't say much about our sex life, especially outside of the bedroom. Occasionally I can get her to open up a little bit during lovemaking, but that's about it. Today, while we were getting the kids ready for a trip to her parents' house, she just out of the blue told me she was happy that...
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Dec 24, 2016 3:02 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explain PERMANENT to me
Replies: 14
Views: 7076

Re: Explain PERMANENT to me

For us, its really "indefinite" rather than "permanent". My wife really never wants to have intercourse again (which is the only way I can achieve orgasm with her). Me not having orgasms isn't really the goal. The reason we consider it indefinite is because my wife is realistic e...
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Dec 21, 2016 2:55 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

I had to leave for a 2 day trip to Denver on Monday, came back last night. My flight got delayed multiple times and I ended up getting home 3 hours later than planned. When I got home, my wife was finishing up nursing the baby and we chatted while she fed him. Since it was already 10:30, I assumed w...
by Shepherdsflock
Tue Dec 20, 2016 12:28 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

We discussed it tonight, and the discussion went well. It turns out that the masturbation didn't bother her as much as the intercourse. It still bothered her, but the intercourse was the big issue. She would like for me to not be unlocked anymore so that I can't have intercourse or even feel the pos...
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Dec 19, 2016 10:35 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

Have you discussed ways to avoid a repetition of what happened in October? Not yet. I just got back Thursday night from a two week trip to Quebec for my new job and doing some sales demos this week in Colorado. So life has been very busy. I had just enough time at home to get ready to be gone again...
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Dec 19, 2016 11:10 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [NoloMeTangere] Posting in Mid-Journey
Replies: 35
Views: 24495

Re: [NoloMeTangere] Posting in Mid-Journey

My wife saw what she called "the perfect chastity," but it is just a fictional device I think. Has anyone seen it in real life? Apparently it's a bar that goes down the urethra and exits at a piercing behind the balls. Then it simply locks on and virtually nothing is visible. I have never...
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Dec 19, 2016 10:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strange ejaculation method
Replies: 5
Views: 3916

Re: Strange ejaculation method

I've heard of erotic asphyxiation, where people derive sexual pleasure from the feeling of suffocation. Definitely not my cup of tea. I do like it when my wife buries my face in her tits. She likes it, too.
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Dec 19, 2016 10:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What kind of wearer are you?
Replies: 12
Views: 6663

Re: What kind of wearer are you?

I am, of course, open about it with my wife. Besides her, I only have one close personal friend who I have talked to about it. I think I would feel more comfortable talking about it with someone I don't know. Some anonymity makes me feel safer.
by Shepherdsflock
Sun Dec 18, 2016 9:39 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

I felt pretty bad about it. My wife hasn't changed as radically as yours, but that's fine with me. I'm not hoping for a nymphomaniac, I am happy that she actually enjoys making love now. That's what's important to me. Seeing a smile on her face and hearing the occasional giggle as we make love, inst...
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Dec 17, 2016 8:08 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 166858

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

Haven't been on here in a while. The company I was working for let a bunch of us go, so I lost my job for the second time in a year. I was pretty depressed. I noticed I was spending a lot of time on here and decided that wasn't healthy. So, not much has happened since then, except that I did find an...