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by danj
Mon Dec 13, 2010 10:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Teasing Or No Teasing?
Replies: 27
Views: 17269
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Re: Teasing Or No Teasing?

I'm not locked yet either. Waiting on our first device, which should be here early this week. I've been going through some of that too, though not quite as long. I also get frustrated when I get no attention or tease. I bring up the topic of my chastity, if for nothing else, so I can get that needed...
by danj
Sun Dec 12, 2010 7:08 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Santa will come before I do
Replies: 11
Views: 6965
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Re: Santa will come before I do

Dev wrote:"My pleasure is your pleasure." Well, now he's getting to live that mantra.

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I like that mantra...been saying something along those lines to her! I do get a definite sense of fulfillment when she has an orgasm, even when I don't.
by danj
Sun Dec 12, 2010 6:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Honor system vs. wearing a device
Replies: 75
Views: 37574
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Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

For me the device is all about behaving myself 100% of the time. I think you'll find that when it arrives and is locked on, it has a definite hot factor that is part of the fun of wearing a device. Hopefully your keyholder will feel that way too, and isn't one of those women who doesn't like to loo...
by danj
Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Honor system vs. wearing a device
Replies: 75
Views: 37574
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Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Late post, but my 2 cents... I'm currently on the honor system, and did have some lapses. What has worked wonders for me is I now wear a metal cockring all day...not overly tight (2"). It signifies to both of us that it is her cock, and serves as a constant reminder of that fact for me. I've re...
by danj
Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698
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Re: Male orgasm frequency

I was just thinking about this last night. My wife, so far, has chosen to allow me to orgasm pretty frequently compared to most here...longest has been 2 stretches of 6 days so far, but I'm already having WAY less orgasms. I estimate I was having anywhere from 10-14 orgasms per week before. Now, may...
by danj
Fri Dec 10, 2010 2:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Goodbye JB. Hello WM?
Replies: 37
Views: 17131
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Re: Goodbye JB. Hello WM?

...However, as he pointed out to me last night, he locks himself right back up, everyday, and hasn't "cheated" on me once with his hand. So he is living up to his end of the bargain. D That's the key for me. It's more about not "cheating", then actually being in a device 24/7, a...
by danj
Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Goodbye JB. Hello WM?
Replies: 37
Views: 17131
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Re: Goodbye JB. Hello WM?

Who am I to comment (still waiting on our very first device to arrive)?...but I like the look of the cage designs best, and they seem like they'd be SO much easier in regards to hygiene.
by danj
Thu Dec 09, 2010 12:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife has agreed to buying device!
Replies: 20
Views: 10608
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Re: Wife has agreed to buying device!

Everyone, Thanks, glad to hear you all think I made a good choice. I'll definitely update on how things go once it arrives. I'm a little nervous about how it will look under my clothing in public, but I'd imagine anyone would be the first time they wear a device outside their home. But, I'll cross t...
by danj
Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife has agreed to buying device!
Replies: 20
Views: 10608
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Wife has agreed to buying device!

I'm pretty excited right now. After a fair amount of discussion (and a few months of up and down orgasm control on the honor system), my wife has finally agreed to let me buy a device. As are many, we're on a pretty tight budget these days, so I went for the CB-6000s on Kept for Her. It was less exp...
by danj
Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons
Replies: 34
Views: 23613
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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

I'm certainly new with chastity (not even in a device yet), but my "buttons" so far are: -tease & denial -non-reciprocal orgasms (love that!) -body worship -some FemDom (not the sissy, humiliation variety) -her telling a close friend...she hasn't, but I love the thought of her telling ...