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by _lj_
Tue Dec 12, 2017 10:38 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality
Replies: 125
Views: 65071

Re: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality

We also have Miss Ivey's book, and whilst there is quite a lot I/we go along with, there's also a lot neither of us want, and humiliation is a major no-no for both. We come from the BDSM background, so the punishment aspects are understood, even though we don't use them, and we also bring in the YKI...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 12, 2017 4:58 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 7703

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

Well, the proposals were all acceptable. the main details are I would be unlocked if health issues require it, and during a very short daily time for hygiene. I may ask for temporary release during acclimatisation to being locked 24/7, eg an occasional evening, approved at her discretion I would app...
by _lj_
Mon Dec 11, 2017 2:29 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 7703

[_lj_] a new beginning

This may be the shortest beginning, it all depends on My Lady's response to an email. Why would I send her an email ? To explain, give her the chance to read and consider, without me expecting anything. Which is where I have gone wrong before. I introduced her to the BDSM world seven years ago, we h...
by _lj_
Wed Nov 08, 2017 6:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: It clicked
Replies: 6
Views: 3910

Re: It clicked

and will you tell your wife about the paid session?

it could all end in tears...
by _lj_
Wed Oct 18, 2017 6:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Metal Detectors
Replies: 51
Views: 26790

Re: Metal Detectors

to expand on slave_d's succinct reply, any piece of metal above a certain size, which will depend upon the sensitivity of the metal detector.

Bear in mind a lot of security "gates" , for example in shops, are not metal detectors, but scan for security tags on the items
by _lj_
Fri Jun 30, 2017 3:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any suggestions for a good paddle
Replies: 8
Views: 5749

Re: Any suggestions for a good paddle

As with most impact toys, there isn't a definition of a "decent" paddle, as it all depends upon the effect you want, the person wielding it, and the bottom (literally) receiving it ! Start with the "bottom" - is it sensation, pain, noise, punishment, "funishment" that y...
by _lj_
Tue Jun 13, 2017 4:44 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Chastity Cage (Queenskeep) sizing questions
Replies: 13
Views: 9398

Re: Chastity Cage (Queenskeep) sizing questions

personally I would go with the shorter length cage, and also a snug fit for diameter. Also, MM will include the gap in the length measurement of the cage, so just measure the length and tell them what it is, they will do the rest, as the gap and ring metal are all part of the length measurement when...
by _lj_
Tue Jun 06, 2017 8:48 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Encountering possible Chastity couples in real life?
Replies: 26
Views: 20371

Re: Encountering possible Chastity couples in real life?

Depends on situation - I used to organise a Munch, so it was a fair bet that anyone turning up would be kinky one way or another. So a couple arrived, she an attractive mid-thirties wearing mainly black, a fitted blouse displaying a bit of cleavage and a "Master" key on a necklace chain. H...
by _lj_
Wed May 10, 2017 4:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Jailbird ring issue... mainly
Replies: 7
Views: 4226

Re: Jailbird ring issue... mainly

possible problem with international translation ? a blister plaster, in my (UK) experience, is a very smooth surfaced gel with an adhesive underside. The edges of the plaster are progressively thinner towards to outer edge, and the whole thing conforms to the skin, with a slightly raised centre over...
by _lj_
Tue May 09, 2017 4:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Shipping a chastity device internationally
Replies: 7
Views: 5191

Re: Shipping a chastity device internationally

A few years ago I ordered a pair of handcuffs (I'm into BDSM) from what I understood was a UK supplier (I'm in the UK) only to have the post delivery lady arrive at my door, requesting a signature for the package covered with Thai stamps, and a customs label clearly stating the contents "HANDCU...