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Failed attempt to make her orgasm last night, she was too drunk and it was too soon, but not for lack of trying. We broke everything out, including letting me “fox” her (love that word). While the strapped on dildo was inside her, and she was holding a bullet vibrator against her clit, I asked, “Wou...

Every year, I have trouble reconciling my feelings about Locktober. On the one hand, I hate the idea of a prescribed lock up period. I don’t want to know that there’s no possibility of release “tonight.” The hope that it could happen at any time, and the hopefully consequent denial, is the best part...

We are back at it. She brought up denial a couple of months ago, maybe late July, early August. She’s been controlling my orgasms since then, and I’ve only had one. Last week, she had me put the cage on. It’s been quite a while, but she’s been into it. The other night, while I was locked and we were...

Life has interfered again. Chastity and denial were working pretty well, but have been placed on hold for an undetermined length of time. Crap.

Normally, when my wife wants to release me, she just hands me the tool. A few nights ago, though, she came into the bedroom and instead of handing it to me, she kept it and started using it. It was very fiddly to get the tool fitted into the screw head, and then finally she started turning it. And i...

Oh, before the MMJB, I would use a very small hair elastic, wrapped multiple times around the body of the lock, which prevented clicking against my cage when I walked, and also helped when we were spooning.

Thought I should add.

My wife had similar issues with my padlock when spooning, and so when I ordered my MMJB, I went for the security screw. First, we had an issue where the front of the post turned out to be a sharp corner. Fortunately, I had another reason to send it back, so I asked if they could round off that edge ...

My wife and I have tried it a few times, and with a couple of different types of “equipment.” I think it’s incredible. My biggest turn on has always been my partner’s expression of pleasure, her moans and sighs and eventual orgasm. The one time that we did it that it really worked for her was totall...

My wife and I tried some chance chastity games early on, but she despises rules and impositions with sex, so they never really worked. I, of course, have come up with many ideas. I’ve had ideas for dice games, card games, following sports teams and/or tournaments, beads / coins in a bag to draw from...

An almost three week chastity lock ended last Sunday night with a sexual encounter, that ended with an orgasm for me. I’m getting permission to orgasm every two or three weeks lately, but that was a little more intense because of the longer cage time than I’ve been seeing lately. Wednesday night saw...