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by lockedsteve
Sat Sep 05, 2015 5:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New chastity arrangement
Replies: 2
Views: 1748

Re: New chastity arrangement

Once again she changed her mind and told me to lock up while standing naked in front of me after her shower. So I am,locked again until the end of October. She is still sick though. Next time I will not negotiate with a woman running a high fever. She does remember what she agreed to. :). My jailbir...
by lockedsteve
Wed Sep 02, 2015 5:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New chastity arrangement
Replies: 2
Views: 1748

New chastity arrangement

Sometimes the best laid plans of mice and men go astray. My wife and I were in the middle of a 4 month orgasm denial when she got sick and has been for two weeks now. We are senior citizens so illnesses come and go with regularity. She said I could unlock until she got better because she is not into...
by lockedsteve
Mon Aug 24, 2015 10:54 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: I've got a screw loose
Replies: 11
Views: 4119

Re: I've got a screw loose

I just gave up on it this week and went back to the padlock. The security screw is not very secure. I could loosen it by jiggling the cage and then unscrewing it by hand. I even tried the spare screw and tightened it as tight as I could but it was loose the next day. MM has some ideas to try but I a...
by lockedsteve
Mon Aug 24, 2015 10:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Isn't it easier to not have access to the key?
Replies: 23
Views: 8454

Re: Isn't it easier to not have access to the key?

My wife hides her key and if I discover it by accident, I tell her. She keeps an emergency key in the kitchen wrapped in paper and signed by her, then covered in packing tape. This way she will know if I used it. When I go out, I take the emergency key. For hygiene after I pee, I can clean myself wi...
by lockedsteve
Sun Aug 23, 2015 6:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Am I in the "Diminishing Returns" phase?
Replies: 3
Views: 1690

Re: Am I in the "Diminishing Returns" phase?

I am the same way. Not only do I lose interest in sex but find that my orgasms are better after 2 weeks than after 2 months. What we did originally is to have edging sessions more often. That did help. Now my wife lost any trace of guilt from denying me so we do not have much sex anymore. I am back ...
by lockedsteve
Sat Aug 22, 2015 8:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else teased like this?
Replies: 3
Views: 2032

Re: Anyone else teased like this?

Update: my wife let me listen to her over the phone and it was intense. We never had phone sex before. I brought her over the edge by telling her how hot I used to get watching her with her girlfriend. That did the trick.
by lockedsteve
Sat Aug 22, 2015 7:40 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.
Replies: 4
Views: 4397

Re: She still desires me but not like before.

Yes, it will be a journal. Sorry that I took no notice of the different rules for this section.
by lockedsteve
Sat Aug 22, 2015 11:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Mature Metal oval ring.
Replies: 17
Views: 4653

Re: Mature Metal oval ring.

I get exactly the same way but still prefer the oval ring. I had MM increase my fing by 1/8th of an inch and that made it go from almost painful to mild discomfort but I rather put up with that for brief periods of time in return for a device I can actually wear all the time for years.
by lockedsteve
Sat Aug 22, 2015 11:27 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.
Replies: 4
Views: 4397

[lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.

I have posted many times that we started chastity two years ago because my wife has a preference for women. A few months ago I was feeling that she was not sexually interested in any men. She would constantly remind me that if same sex marriages were legal when we were married, she would have chosen...
by lockedsteve
Sat Aug 22, 2015 10:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Which style of device is less of a turn off?
Replies: 15
Views: 5495

Re: Which style of device is less of a turn off?

My wife loves my Jailbird by Mature Metal. It is an open design with bars that allow her to feel me and stick her long nails into my penis. Plus my skin bulges out when I try to get hard. I also have a security screw so there is no lock to scratch her up like it used to do. It is also aesthetically ...