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I have tried a lot of things but mostly use a Silicone lube. It is pricey but it lasts a very long time. Lanacane makes an anti-chaffing gel that goes on like a gel but evaporates rapidly leaving behind a dry lub. It works very well but is pricey for a small tube of it.

The members who suggested a metal cage type device are right because that i the only thing that worked for me. I had the HT and what I did was purchase the cleaning kit from Keptforher.com. You get two squirt bottles and some sponge swabs. Squirt in soapy water and then rinse with regular water. Use...

Yesterday was the first time for me. I went to the doctor to go over my lab test results. After we reviewed it he wagged his finger and asked me if I was ready for a prostate exam. I was wearing my chastity cage so I made up a story about being sore from going too much and a bleeding hemorrhoid and ...

I had both a ring and a peg break and gave up on the CB6000. It cannot withstand 24/7 wear. I went to the Bon4 metal device but it was too heavy for my taste an hard to clean for me at least. Then on to the new Holy Trainer which is the most comfortable off the shelf device I have tried so far but I...

I spent more than you before I realized that I spent more on off the shelf devices than a custom made one. I bit the bullet and got a Jailbird from Mature Metal and was extremely pleased with it. I have one ball smaller than the other so it took two inexpensive round trips to MM, the first to increa...

Here are some tips that helped me. 1. What you are experiencing is normal. Most of us go through the same thing. 2. You need to stop yourself from masturbating. You can ask for your wife's help but do not dump the burden on stopping you, on her. She will soon give up monitoring you 24/7 to stop you ...

You got some good advice but it is not about the quality of the knock off but more about how comfortable it is to wear extended periods of time. It can be great plastic but if it has seams in the ring, as most knock offs do, they will rub you raw in a few hours. In short, what everyone is saying is ...

A lot of guys get what is called a fat pad. I once had an almost 7" penis that is now only shows a few inches and turtles most of the time. I took a two week break, gained some weight and it is tight on me now. I do have a larger ring that I may switch to after my shower. I normally slip out of...

I do not buy used underwear no matter how much they are cleaned and disinfected so I am not about to buy a used Chastity device. Heck, I will not even buy a used car or anything else. However, that is my personal preference and there really is no harm in buying a sterilized, by the seller or you, ch...

When we first started we had dreams of long term orgasm denial but that ended chastity play real quick. I suggest as above and it has nothing to do with his oragasm but rather that it takes a while to get used to wearing the cage for any length of time. I took me months before I could wear it 24/7. ...