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The ups and downs of our relationship to denial and chastity are challenging for me. When something happens, during one of our “up” times that impacts our ability to connect on a regular basis, my denial comes to a very unsatisfying end as my orgasm to end it will usually come after some discussion....

Haven’t posted in a while. Something happened in November, life got in the way, and our sex life in general took a huge hit. For months. February finally saw a return to our normal, and on the 24th, as we were getting ready for a date night, my wife said, “I think your outfit needs an accessory you ...

Sunday morning, with no kids in the house, and while cuddling, I propositioned, asking for a release from the cage so we could fuck. She agreed, grabbed the key, and let me out. We had a pretty normal encounter, and she let me orgasm, and then she told me to lock it back up immediately. Two orgasms ...

Night before last, we started fooling around, but within about ten minutes it was determined by my wife that she wasn’t going to orgasm, so we gave up and cuddled and went to sleep. When we woke up yesterday morning, she started in on me aggressively, and we escalated quickly. She let me out of the ...

16 and technically one half. My new record in chastity. I will call it 17. I think I was getting too handsy for her, but I don’t know. She let me out mid encounter last night, and then denied me orgasm for a long time. After I made her orgasm, she said, “Fuck me,” and I knew. It was, at that point, ...

Sex last night. Good orgasm for her. I was not unlocked.

Everyday now is a record for my longest time locked with absolutely not a minute out. I think my past longest was 11 days. She mentioned locktober again last night, but I really don’t think she’ll actually follow through on that.

I share your appreciation of this space. I especially love the opportunity to “scream into the void” that keeping a journal here offers. It allows me to express the myriad of confusing feelings, without overwhelming my wife as the only person I can talk to about this. I know people read it, but even...

13 days locked so far; 14 days since she let me inside her; 7 days since our last encounter and her orgasm. She came back from her weekend trip tapped out energy-wise, and has needed a couple of quiet, early bed time nights to recover. We’ve cuddled her to sleep two nights in a row, which has been g...

Sometimes, my wife does something that puts me into the most amazing head space, and I can't tell if it was a happy accident, or if she did it with intent. The current state of our chastity paradigm is that I only orgasm with permission, removing the ending points of her control that used to leave m...

Still locked from Sept. It’s been few days since she and I connected, and she’s out of town for a work conference this weekend. So, last night as she was fingering the cage and driving me crazy: “Tomorrow night, since I’m leaving the next day, you’ll need to make me cum.” A specific and dominant way...