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I’d call that “tease and denial”, and, it can definitely be called chastity. To be “chaste” originally meant to be “sexually pure”, as if there was such a thing. Keeping your arousal high for when your spouse wants to have sex, and reserving orgasm for her, fits into that “chaste” mindset for me.

@Tessasissy , I am not sure. Still waiting for the evotion replacement parts. I’ll let you know how that works out with foreskin, if / when I have one that fits me.

Welcome @docx! There are some thread in the device forum about the A272 and similar Chinese devices, which are comfortable for Tom and others. And then there’s always custom, whether 3D printed or steel or titanium.

Con save with disadvantage at the end of each month, DC 17?

Probably too nerdy .

Wiki claims "written by American author and relationship counselor John Gray, after he had earned degrees in meditation and taken a correspondence course in psychology", and I have no reason to disbelieve that. Tom Allen , you got me there, I have no data either way on whether that book ha...

Yeah that book, as I understand it, basically says “here are the gender roles society has created, and, they’re innate, not just created by society”. I disagree with that notion. A lot of folk don’t know how to talk about sex and feelings openly. That’s a vulnerable way to speak, and that can be pro...

I’m not sure any man can take that much teasing and denial without relieving himself in secret. Oh it’s possible. Teasing once or twice a week, because that’s how often my husband likes to come himself, and no orgasm for me. We have been going for close to 7 months, with no set end. That did take c...

Also, somebody suggested that for X (chastity) 8,9,10 that removal was only for non-sexual reasons. I kind of like that distinction, but I wonder if it's not overlapping too much with Y (denial). I don't see the overlap. One can stay caged and still be allowed orgasms - during sex with a strap-on, ...

Interesting Tom Allen . I never had nocturnal emissions, until I went past 5 months denied, and then I had one. Limp, out of the blue, during sleep. No way to stop it. And then, as one does, I had to DuckDuckGo that, and found that for men my age, a nocturnal emission every 2 months or so is the ave...

So on the @Tom Allen (tm) scale: 0,7. Right now, with 6+ months of denial. Previously, 0,5 to 0,6.