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by _lj_
Tue May 02, 2017 10:19 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SwedInLoriTube] Vanilla girlfriend finally enjoys chastity
Replies: 9
Views: 19761

Re: [SwedInLoriTube] Vanilla girlfriend finally enjoys chast

EDAS wrote:Interesting.

What does having the same "aces in your balls" mean? What are these "aces" that you speak of?
"aches" ?
by _lj_
Tue May 02, 2017 9:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Public humiliation
Replies: 8
Views: 7853

Re: Public humiliation

My chastity interests developed from the BDSM end of things. In general, in the BDSM scene, consent is absolutely required, and that is by all the participants, including observers. Which means a Domme would never contemplate kicking her submissive in the balls, in public. In private or in a play ev...
by _lj_
Tue Feb 21, 2017 10:11 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: UK members?
Replies: 44
Views: 51947

Re: UK members?

You may not have to pay duty on US to UK imports, I've bought stuff from the US several times and so far never had to pay duty, it seems a random process. With apologies to MM, I wanted a new base ring for my JailBird and was indeed put off by the transit time, over three weeks in each direction, pl...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 13, 2016 5:48 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone have experience w/ legitimate dominatrix for chastity
Replies: 6
Views: 4364

Re: Anyone have experience w/ legitimate dominatrix for chas

I don't have personal experience of paying a Domme, but I do know quite a few who are "lifestyle" in that they enjoy doing what they do with friends/lovers and also take on paying customers. I've certainly been on the receiving end of their attention at play-parties :D There is a problem f...
by _lj_
Tue Nov 22, 2016 9:14 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Effects of going shorter? (cage length)
Replies: 21
Views: 12963

Re: Effects of going shorter? (cage length)

First, I don't think MM will shorten the cage, I understood that wasn't an option, but obviously ask them. Or perhaps it's just the diameter. From my experience, with a cage that is a snug fit for length and diameter, on the three occasions I've experimented with an orgasm (induced with a vibrator) ...
by _lj_
Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:24 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 186
Views: 174159

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

I had a similar surprise last night. My Lady hadn't shown a lot of interest in maintaining my chastity recently, so I just stopped putting the JailBird on and no comment was made. We had family staying with us for a few days, and I'm not expected to wear it in those circumstances (explaining to 3,5-...
by _lj_
Fri Oct 07, 2016 3:25 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Newbie - Edema problem?
Replies: 16
Views: 10691

Re: Newbie - Edema problem?

Regarding sizing, I would say that the cage needs to be gently snug when flaccid - that way the shaft doesn't really get started into an erection, so there is very little pressure to develop an edema (you also don't suffer any discomfort with night-time erections because they are stopped in their tr...
by _lj_
Thu Sep 22, 2016 7:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What does your KH do with her "key" and the spare....?
Replies: 11
Views: 6339

Re: What does your KH do with her "key" and the spare....?

My Lady hides one key, all I know is it is somewhere upstairs, but I never follow her to see where she puts it. If I need the key to unlock for hygiene or simply a break for a few hours (when we are together, so she knows what I am doing, so no opportunity for a quick one!) I ask, and if granted, sh...
by _lj_
Wed Sep 14, 2016 2:37 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Jail Bird vs Queens Keep?
Replies: 39
Views: 22174

Re: Jail Bird vs Queens Keep?

At this point I don't think I'm going to prevent myself from having an orgasm, but getting to the point where an orgasm in the cage is effectively ruined sounds like a reasonable goal. Might be a weird question, but when you have a ruined orgasm in the cage, does the buildup feel like you're about ...
by _lj_
Mon Sep 12, 2016 3:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How do I lock myself in chastity?
Replies: 24
Views: 11862

Re: How do I lock myself in chastity?

Have a look at www.boundanna.com and the related forum http://forum.boundanna.net/ this is probably the best self-bondage site on the web and self-locked chastity is a well-represented form of bondage, and is regularly discussed. There are sites which use hidden files to store a combination for self...