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- Thu Dec 15, 2022 7:45 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3429
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Re: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
I'm in full-time FLR, but it wasn't always like this. Obviously every case is different, but when I was starting out with a less-than-enthusiastic OH, A two-pronged strategy emerged. The issue was that Her perception of my submission was that it created both work and responsibility for Her. The stra...
- Tue Dec 13, 2022 7:33 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Holiday locking (or unlocking)
- Replies: 24
- Views: 8634
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Re: Holiday locking (or unlocking)
Currently on honour, but expecting to be caged in the next day or two until 2023. March 21 would be a new record by far, but such a thing would require an hour's freedom from time to time, since She does like the occasional use of Her penis. I'm not sure I'll mention this to Her.
- Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:35 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 6979
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Re: Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?
You're like a broken record, mate.
- Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:34 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: During the last moments...
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4043
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Re: During the last moments...
This is why we're kinky! What we do isn't mainstream and must be absolutely baffling to vanilla folk, but we (usually) love it. I might not have orgasms (or at least not conventional orgasms) but I have a helluva lot more sex, just not a lot of PIV missionary sex. From Her point of view she teases m...
- Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:54 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: How to Uncover Like Minded People
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6007
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Re: How to Uncover Like Minded People
On the question of spilling the beans and letting people know, this is something I think about from time to time. I'm in an FLR and and part-feminised, so part of this is out there because my nails are on show, especially in summer. People sometimes also notice that I'm wearing hosiery when they cat...
- Fri Aug 05, 2022 8:41 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Surprise question from my wife
- Replies: 10
- Views: 8876
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Re: Surprise question from my wife
hah! Be careful what you wish for. I expressed a desire to wear panties for sex as a dressing up thing many years ago. My wife wasn't too impressed at first. She got into it after a time, then said I should get my own knickers because I stretched hers, and I built up a collection. Then about three a...
- Thu Jun 23, 2022 9:46 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5456
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Re: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?
My wife commands penetrative sex only occasionally and has never wanted a strapon or anything artificial inside her. So it's all me, but not allowed to cum and pulling out immediately She says. She also doesn't like wearing the one we have, so pegging is done by hand. She has a vibrator which She us...
- Thu Jun 23, 2022 9:37 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: MM security screw vs padlock
- Replies: 21
- Views: 4400
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Re: MM security screw vs padlock
My micro-cage has a security screw which is very comfortable since the whole locking mechanism is so small and smooth. But around three days is my limit with this one. My long-term cages all use "magic locks" which have the top exposed, causing sharp edges that dig in to both of us but whi...
- Tue Jun 21, 2022 12:03 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Does anybody else enjoy morning erections?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4911
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Re: Does anybody else enjoy morning erections?
My fave cages are inexpensive short-to-micro, stainless steel. When I started out, ill-fitting cages that were far too big would be agony during the night, but now I do enjoy a would-be stiffy.
- Tue Jun 14, 2022 4:20 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Which key holder to choose
- Replies: 8
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Re: Which key holder to choose
I agree with Tom that there are ethical issues. You could ask a friend to be a keyholder with full explanation of the circumstances and of your kink. If they were up for it this would be consensual and ok, but it would change the friendship dynamic permanently. There is a possibility though that the...