Chastity Forums

I used to worry, now not so much. I think that A&E (ER in the US) doctors must have seen everything going and a little metalwork will hardly faze them. I exclusively wear frilly thongs, often with hosiery, and shave, so if you're in hospital and the A&E erupts in laughter - it's probably me!...

I'm aiming to get through 2018 without a full orgasm. On track so far. Have been allowed perhaps seven or eight ruins during this time, but can't help feeling this is cheating a bit even though I end up just as horny. Am dissuaded from too many since I stupidly made my wife promise to make me eat my...

Four devices, but one firm favourite. I'm only a year on from my first device, having spent a couple of months previously using honour during the day and cuffs & panties at night. My wife, who was at that time unconvinced by my latest kink but was playing along reluctantly, forbade a cage - so I...

It's a difficult one isn't it? I'm still a newbie at this sort of thing, the chastity/T&D dating only from about6 months ago. But it's been (and still is) a helluva journey. Most of my chastity is cageless, using honour. But since I adore rules, no-touching is something I have been able to keep ...

For my wife and I, the answer to the question, "is chastity about powerplay and chores, or about sexual and romantic connection", is that it's both. I don't find the two exclusive at all; the powerplay between us is entirely consensual and I could and any or all of it at any time. But at t...

My discussions happened around April/May this year. The background is that I've always had some fairly mild kinks, such as wearing panties from time to time and occasional anal play, but in April discovered Edging. I used a couple of edging sites by myself for a while, then shared my new pastime wit...

I applaud Thumper's aims for these forums and agree that we are here because we have chastity at the core of our kinks. But there are judgements to be made because each of us will be different in our predilections and the intensity of them (I like discomfort but not pain, to wear hosiery and panties...

Well, it's her clitoris at the end of the day, and chastity is my kink, not hers. My hope is that she'll wait until I'm around to help because as my orgasms have become rare events (1 in August, two on consecutive days in October and one perhaps happening after Xmas) I take ever-greater pleasure in ...

My current cage came with a detachable urethral tube - which I promptly detached. I have used it successfully, but only out of curiosity and within the home, but it does make peeing standing up, and with a controlled stream, pretty much like uncaged. I've considered using it while out-and-about, say...

I quickly gave up on trying to pee standing and now just sit down. My wife likes that the toilet seat isn't left up anymore ;-) With regard to hygiene, my main cage is a short metal affair so I'm usually all the way to the end, which helps, so a dab with toilet tissue does the business until cage-of...