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by VinnyDee
Fri Sep 15, 2017 10:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1028
Views: 1322307

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

"While I love you deeply, I do not lust for you or like your penis." For some that may be fantasy or role playing talk. For us it is real since my wife is bi and prefers women for sex. We have not had intercourse for about 20 years and she had a long time girlfriend for 30 years that lived...
by VinnyDee
Fri Sep 15, 2017 4:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: My wife has surprised me - come to embrace my chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 4336

Re: My wife has surprised me - come to embrace my chastity

We have been at this for 4 or 5 years, 24/7. My wife went from reluctant key holder to not wanting me to orgasm at all. She has been reading a lot and at my age of 66, I would need something like 100 orgasms a month to make a small difference in my Prostate health. She has said that there really is ...
by VinnyDee
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Charting Chastity Usage
Replies: 4
Views: 2291

Re: Charting Chastity Usage

We used to use an iPhone app to record the date of my last orgasm but do not use it anymore. I started being locked up 24/7 sometime in May of 2013 when I got my Jailbird. I work from home and medical issues prevent me from doing much outside of my house. I am unlocked when not practical which is do...
by VinnyDee
Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do we Really want Orgasms?
Replies: 26
Views: 12948

Re: Do we Really want Orgasms?

After a few years I began to regret my orgasms. In fact, most were given against my wishes but I had to abide by what my wife wanted. Now she is fine if I never orgasm again but smart enough to now that without the hope of an orgasm, I lose that wonderful feeling of anticipation. I used to beg for a...
by VinnyDee
Sun Aug 13, 2017 11:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9509

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

Yep. My wife is afraid of accidents like what happened in the past so I am not unlocked for sex.
by VinnyDee
Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Encountering possible Chastity couples in real life?
Replies: 26
Views: 20229

Re: Encountering possible Chastity couples in real life?

We lived in a poly triad for 30 years and never met another couple doing the same. I was into BDSM for 47 years and did meet couples in the old Vault BDSM club and through social circles. I have never even heard anyone talk about chastity until I stumbled on it online after we moved away from our gi...
by VinnyDee
Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cheating
Replies: 4
Views: 2949

Re: Cheating

We all can give ourselves an orgasm which is why I say that unless you cannot constrain yourself, chastity will not last long. The is the main problem of those who self lock or lock for someone that is not a live in lover. With no loved one to be strong for you start to think what the heck, and then...
by VinnyDee
Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wanting to Escalate
Replies: 4
Views: 3128

Re: Wanting to Escalate

I spent 47 years pursuing more and more fetishes to try. If you are familiar with fetlife, we have done all of the stuff you find there, even the yucky stuff. If not, go there and get some ideas. We have settled into just teasing and denial after trying all the other stuff you find online about chas...
by VinnyDee
Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9509

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

That is the rule around here. My wife started off denying orgasms but was getting annoyed that I was getting erect so I got the smallest Jailbird they make at 1 1/4". Now if I start to grow the skin on my penis presses out of the openings and the ring is pulled forward until it hurts a little. ...
by VinnyDee
Wed Jul 05, 2017 12:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying to convince your keyholder?
Replies: 6
Views: 8409

Re: Trying to convince your keyholder?

I did it a different way. I started with teasing and denial. Just asked to be denied the next time we had sex so that my orgasm would be intensified. I mentioned some things about Tantric sex and how it increases intimacy but mostly just to try it once to see how much stronger my orgasm would be. Wh...