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by VinnyDee
Sat Sep 23, 2017 4:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked or Unlocked during sex?
Replies: 7
Views: 4504

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Just finished sex. Not so good because I have stitches in my mouth from oral surgery and my wife has a cut at the corner of her mouth. Kissing was all the pleasure I got from sex, so I just held my wife as she used her vibrator. She had to turn away from me because we were both tempted to kiss. She ...
by VinnyDee
Sat Sep 23, 2017 11:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked or Unlocked during sex?
Replies: 7
Views: 4504

Locked or Unlocked during sex?

After a few years of 24/7 lockup, my wife had decided to keep me locked during sex too. With long term orgasm denial she is afraid of an accident happening. Plus she has better orgasms without having to think of my penis at all. She just squeezes my balls to make me moan and then has a very intense ...
by VinnyDee
Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any Chastity-related resolutions for 2017?
Replies: 14
Views: 7355

Re: Any Chastity-related resolutions for 2017?

I am always locked except for doctors and dentist. Why dentist, because I once had a ball slip out and all these instruments in my mouth for drilling a tooth and I had to endure the pain for 20 minutes. Locking up is not really our focus. Locked or not, orgasm denial is our focus. We work together t...
by VinnyDee
Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?
Replies: 22
Views: 13923

Re: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?

It is called sharing her orgasm. I have been doing that for the last few years. Did it today. I always feel calm afterwards and the horny goes away for a few days. My wife likes to use her vibrator while I kiss and fondle her. I encourage her to orgasm and when she does I hold her tight. They we are...
by VinnyDee
Sun Sep 17, 2017 1:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New Goal - 90 days locked
Replies: 4
Views: 3159

Re: New Goal - 90 days locked

You get used to it. For me, being locked up all the time is my normal state for the last 4 years. It is the orgasm denial that is the tough part. I am not even unlocked for sex as that requires my wife to stop focusing on her pleasure to make sure I do not orgasm. She will no longer risk a ruined or...
by VinnyDee
Sun Sep 17, 2017 12:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Long Term Health
Replies: 6
Views: 3982

Re: Long Term Health

I have been locked up 24/7/365 for over 4 years with no problems. I am unlocked for doctor visits since I get my old man Prostate checked each visit, and when it poses a risk to my well being. I would say that I unlocked about 10 hours a year, more if I need surgery. I am semi retired and work 3 day...
by VinnyDee
Sun Sep 17, 2017 11:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does anyone practice findom?
Replies: 10
Views: 7106

Re: Does anyone practice findom?

Let's see: - My wife has the bank and check books - I have no idea of how much is in our accounts - My checks get direct deposited so I never see them - I do not know exactly how much I make because I get profit split and a salary - She holds my credit cards to prevent late night impulsive purchases...
by VinnyDee
Sat Sep 16, 2017 11:08 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explain PERMANENT to me
Replies: 14
Views: 7137

Re: Explain PERMANENT to me

You first need to know what the poster considers permanent chastity. Some call being locked up 24/7 as permanent chastity while others call no more orgasms, as permanent chastity. Others require both being locked up 24/7 and no more orgasms as permanent chastity. So you need to know the poster's def...
by VinnyDee
Sat Sep 16, 2017 3:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tempted to "Out" myself
Replies: 19
Views: 11134

Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

I learned a long time ago that you never know what life has in store for you. We decided not to tell anyone that we shared a girlfriend and that the girls were both bi. We went on a need to know basis. Years later I found myself as public figure for a few years and it was important to be viewed as a...
by VinnyDee
Sat Sep 16, 2017 3:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: My chastity has merged with my non sex life
Replies: 1
Views: 1963

My chastity has merged with my non sex life

We have been into 24/7/365 chastity for a few years now and as we have done with all previous fetishes, we confined it to the bedroom. Chastity is different since I am still locked up and teased outside of the bedroom. My wife has always been submissive in and out of the bedroom. In one aspect it ha...