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I assume you are self locked so you are both prisoner and warden. Pardons are easier to come by that way. ':) Wish I could make the decisions but I cannot. What my wife used to do was to give me ruined orgasms into a condom. Did this a few times and then when I was nice and horny from edging, she wo...

My wife and I have been into Chastity Play for 5 years, this November. I have what some of you may say is the ideal key holder. My life reads better than any porn video I have see. There were all the fetishes, even the yucky ones. My wife turned out to be bi just like my two previous lovers. Sex bet...

I have had the same thing. I too was using lube at night. I no longer put lube on at night and I got a smaller ring. Also try a smaller gap size. Most guys go for comfort when selecting the ring size but the smallest one you can wear without cutting off circulation is the one to use. If you can slip...

Lucky you. You get to pick the things to do. I would pick oral sex on me, intercourse or a threesome. I never have a choice. It is always pain.

We started off on the honor system and that is the way I suggest others first approach their wives. I told my wife about Tantric Sex and Teasing and Denial. Much better than showing up with a hunk of plastic or metal on your penis. Sort of trying to introduce your normally submissive wife into BDSM ...

5 years ago my wife was sweet and refused to even spank me, much less deny me orgasms. Fast forward to now and she wants me to orgasm once or twice a year and only then because she loves me. We have not had intercourse since longer than we can remember so that is never going to happen especially now...

My wife's orgasms tend to be better. And some a lot lot better. She says what happens now is the best it's been in years (we've been married a long time). I know that feeling. My wife told me yesterday that she likes where we are at sexually, but thinks I can live with one orgasm a year. She has re...

Now this interesting: the longer you are denied, the better are her orgasms! Probably because she can therefore concentrate on her own pleasure and on nothing else, i.e. not your pleasure. I am just throwing out there... I have not had an orgasm in 9 weeks--though my wife and I have fucked (but ala...

I haven't masturbated in years. Not because of my cage but because of the promise I made my wife.

I have noticed and my wife has verified it that the longer I am denied an orgasm, the more intense her orgasms are. Today she was calling on God over and over. I asked her why and she said that my desperation increases over time and that is what turns her on. This has been what drives her to deny me...