Chastity Forums

I sincerely thank you for your concern. The unhappiness extends to our chastity sex life and nothing else. My wife is a people pleaser. I am very happy in our marriage. My wife does everything for me, even takes out the garbage. My issue is that I lost all vestiges of topping from the bottom. Before...

Two weeks ago I spent two hours with an oral surgeon under anesthesia. An hour after I got home, my wife told me to lock up despite one of those surgeries was to remove a mass that might have been cancerous. It was not according to the lab but they still keep an eye on ti to see if it develops later...

I had the seam split and as you say and thank goodness for an emergency key. I also had two rings break. When I talked to customer service at CBX, I was told that their device was really not built for 24/7 long term wear. That is when I decided to bite the bullet and buy a Jailbird which I have worn...

You will get there. At first my wife only asked for foot rubs too. My wife has no sexual imagination. Once she finds something that works, in or out of the bedroom, she will continue to do that for the rest of her life. I bought her books and copied articles for her to read so she could take what sh...

That would be too easy for us. I suggest one swat of the paddle on your butt for the number of days each day. One swat on day one, two on day two, etc.. That will make you both fear and long for the end of October.

I have been a fetishist for 47 years. For me it was always a game. Even when I was being cuckolded by an ex girlfriend, it was just a game. It became real when she asked my three friends to gang bang her and then called me in to clean her up. That was too real and personal for me so I kicked her out...

Do you use lube. I wear 24/7/356 and liberally use a Silicone lube. The other problem as someone said is your ring size. It seems counter intuitive but a smaller ring is more comfortable. The chaffing you described is from the ring sliding up and down your balls. I have found that many guys go for c...

Sounds like how my wife used to be. Raised strict and was a virgin when we married at 19. Even when she started to fantasize about sex with women, she never said anything but started to ask her girlfriends to join us in bed. I never asked for a threesome but I was not going to kill the golden goose....

As I mentioned in another post, my wife was unaware that this is our 5th year of chastity with teasing and denial. She thought it was just over a year until I showed her the receipts for the cage I started off with and the one I have been wearing for the last 4 years. I told her that since I am the ...

FWIW, and i do realise this isnt for everyone, but i found that introducing regular discipline increased my feeling of attention. This has become an almost daily thing now and MsM is getting into it more and more. i have to leave Her paddle on the bed after Ive made it and sooner or later i get tol...