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by betheball
Mon May 23, 2011 5:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: She Told her Best Friend
Replies: 38
Views: 23733

Re: She Told her Best Friend

Here's what would be hot to me about this. She feels comfortable "coming out of the closet" by telling a friend. It's another level of buy-in, of ownership to the whole keyheld relationship. If she never tells, it's one of those "dark secrets" between couples - probably right up ...
by betheball
Thu Feb 17, 2011 12:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How My Orgasm Felt After 32 Days!
Replies: 14
Views: 11169

Re: How My Orgasm Felt After 32 Days!

That was a great descriptive! Just finished a cycle of about the same length. (started on NYD - went until Super Bowl weekend, so about 40 days). Easily the longest/most intense orgasm of my life, and I was also surprised that I was able to hold off myself until my wife/KH was ready to cum. I rememb...
by betheball
Thu Feb 03, 2011 11:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I Could Not Express It
Replies: 3
Views: 2030

Re: I Could Not Express It

So, am about at 35 days as well, more or less, caged in metal KH went on a trip on Monday am, taking key, and only key, with her. Short of bolt cutters, I'm locked down good for a while. Having been on honor system for last few days before she left, the device quickly provides calm. There's the inev...
by betheball
Fri Jan 28, 2011 10:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long? Check my face!
Replies: 7
Views: 4226

Re: How long? Check my face!

Quick update. Today is 27 days in, more or less 4 weeks since the start of the year, and the start of this cycle of chastity. One "accidental" orgasm at about day 5. Too much penetration during a session, but we decided to continue going forward rather than looking at this as a failed expe...
by betheball
Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Refractory Period
Replies: 20
Views: 9730

Re: Refractory Period

Refractory is different for me on honor system vs. locked. When on the honor system, the refractory cycle can be very frustrating, and also a lot less fun for both of us. My KH has to be careful not to "overstimulate" me, and I have to be careful not to get too turned on. As the days go by...
by betheball
Mon Jan 10, 2011 1:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long? Check my face!
Replies: 7
Views: 4226

Re: How long? Check my face!

Interesting perspective. For what it's worth, my KH has alternated between shaved and non-shaved around her pussy throughout our lives together, but I have always been clean-shaven on my face. So, this is something very, very new to both of us. And for that reason, a new sensation is always fun. We ...
by betheball
Fri Jan 07, 2011 6:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long? Check my face!
Replies: 7
Views: 4226

How long? Check my face!

Starting with the lastest chastity cycle (01/01 for me), we decided that I would grow a beard of some sort to "mark the passing of chastity cycle time". As it's only been a week, and my normal facial hair growth is something akin to Scooby Doo's Shaggy, it's not a pretty site. (once again,...
by betheball
Thu Dec 23, 2010 10:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Almost mainstream!
Replies: 0
Views: 4394

Almost mainstream!

Darn the luck with Rex Ryan and his wife. Going through the list of kinks on their alt.com profile (bottom of article), there's nipple torture, BDSM, domination and submission...would it have been too much to have "male chastity" on the list? At least in the tri-state area, the overwhelmin...
by betheball
Tue Dec 14, 2010 11:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Performance Anxiety
Replies: 14
Views: 9471

Re: Performance Anxiety

Thanks much for all the suggestions. Just a follow-up from the past weekend (since I started this story, might as well provide the play-by-play follow-up) With some of your thoughts in mind, I teed up a detailed, deep, and probably a bit painful discussion the other night after my inquiry to this gr...
by betheball
Fri Dec 10, 2010 6:45 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Performance Anxiety
Replies: 14
Views: 9471

Re: Performance Anxiety

Dev, I do follow your blog, and did recall that exchange. My age is 47, and have been practicing MC both honor and with a cage, for about six months. Typically only in the device for about 10-14 days. This last one was about 25 days (I know, minor league compared to others out here). But it has seem...