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I agree with YesDear. Since she had a cheating partner, one additional benefit for her would be that she could be very confident that you wouldn't be cheating while locked in a device for which she held the keys. Even if you were able to "pull out," the device would still be firmly attache...

Trust me, there is a lot of trial and error. But, welcome! You will find that the trial and error is well worth it.

A couple of random thoughts. If you haven't already done so: Maybe try to find a way to reassure her that this is not a heavy duty kink, not S&M with her suspended upside down, legs spread wide, getting her crotch ferociously whipped. Oops, got carried away there, but you know what I mean. Let h...

Hmmm. This idea of top and bottom wings has potential for discouraging pull out.

Keep in mind that any device's total length equals the cage length plus the "gap", usually 3/8's to 1/2 inch, plus the base ring, at least 1/8 inch but often much wider.

Best of luck, Jackfish. Read through the back posts on these forums. There is a wealth of information here and many peoples' experiences to learn from.

@WifeIsVanilla So I see you have a watchful mistress and a jailbird. What is your preference and why? I know that William wears the spider with a triple ring. So I am wondering what you thinka bout the two you have and the differences? Seems like the defacto is the Jailbird. I have found very few p...

Personally, I can't do anything like a "Locktober" this year due to an upcoming medical procedure that is supposed to take at least a week's recovery.

However, I am a bit surprised that there isn't more chatter about Locktober since it begins in just a few days.

At a restaurant Kitten and I will look something up on our phones if it has to do with what we are talking about. Other than that, the phones stay put away. Kitten has misophonia, a phobia of hearing other people chewing. so the TV is always on. We record Jeopardy and watch it as we eat. So glad to...

Welcome, grunge12348. Vienna is a VERY beautiful city. Among a lot of other fun things, we did a traveling dinner / tour in a horse drawn carriage that stopped a 4 restaurants where our "butler" picked up courses for the dinner. It was SO cool. Oh, and we love your Gruner Veltliner also. :)