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by WifeIsVanilla
Thu Oct 08, 2020 8:51 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going
Replies: 20
Views: 8513

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

I am sorry that you had such an unpleasant experience.

Life has a way of getting in the way of fun. :(
by WifeIsVanilla
Wed Oct 07, 2020 1:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Emergency keys are important!
Replies: 13
Views: 5184

Re: Emergency keys are important!

Ouch!!

So sorry to hear this. I too hope you are feeling much better now.
by WifeIsVanilla
Tue Oct 06, 2020 6:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explaining my fetish to a new partner
Replies: 5
Views: 1469

Re: Explaining my fetish to a new partner

I agree with pretty much everything said above. Since she often initiates sex, somewhere along in the eventual discussion you need to have, you might mention that, if she holds your key, using it to unlock your device is a really good way of letting you know that she is in the mood for PIV sex. Othe...
by WifeIsVanilla
Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First time wearer
Replies: 18
Views: 2357

Re: First time wearer

My first cage was from CB-X, and I still think that is where a newbie should start, either a CB-6000 or a CB-6000S. Gap and base ring size are things that most beginners get wrong with unpleasant results, and the CB kits have multiple sizes of each to experiment with. The 6000 has a 3 1/4" tube...
by WifeIsVanilla
Fri Sep 18, 2020 6:56 am
Forum: Fiction
Topic: Camping (3) Diving into the deep.
Replies: 3
Views: 5486

Re: Camping (3) Diving into the deep.

I am hoping for a Chapter 4.
by WifeIsVanilla
Mon Sep 14, 2020 12:57 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Locked or just disciplined— what’s the difference?
Replies: 11
Views: 2500

Re: Locked or just disciplined— what’s the difference?

The chastity cage is VERY important for me. I have been into B & D since puberty. My wife used to indulge me once in a while, but not for the last 20 years or so. Chastity devices are an absolutely brilliant form of genital bondage, AND when properly fitted, they feel so good. Also, because my J...
by WifeIsVanilla
Sun Sep 06, 2020 7:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not horny after locking up for some times
Replies: 16
Views: 3374

Re: Not horny after locking up for some times

[/quote]That sounds interesting, but, I imagine you must change to something shorter during the day? I don't have that ability. [/quote] First of all, I envy your not having the "ability" to remove your cage. :) Since my otherwise wonderful "vanilla" wife won't play, my only keyh...
by WifeIsVanilla
Sat Sep 05, 2020 7:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not horny after locking up for some times
Replies: 16
Views: 3374

Re: Not horny after locking up for some times

I repaired the tube of mine several times with super glue. Then the tab broke off of the ring that fit me, so I gave up. There is too much stress on that spot for the very small dab of the super glue that could go there. By that time, I already owned 3 much better made devices, and I swore off CB pr...
by WifeIsVanilla
Mon Aug 31, 2020 2:45 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orientation of people on this forum
Replies: 34
Views: 7779

Re: Orientation of people on this forum

I am as straight as straight can be. Zero attraction to any other males. My obsession with heavy B&D, with a little light S&M thrown in from time to time, first manifested itself when I was 11 or 12 years old. To me, chastity is a simply delightful form of B&D that also happens to feel f...
by WifeIsVanilla
Thu Aug 20, 2020 7:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I'm a jerk
Replies: 7
Views: 1128

Re: I'm a jerk

You have a wonderful wife, and much more accommodating than my wonderful wife. Unfortunately, you overplayed your hand. OK. It's SO, SO easy to do. It would seem that she has forgiven you for pushing too hard, so you should forgive yourself and proceed to enjoy to the max what she is comfortable doi...