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by Schnoff
Tue Feb 27, 2018 7:19 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Non-ball trap cages question(s)
Replies: 14
Views: 5154
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Re: Non-ball trap cages question(s)

Drew speaks about the one that Steelwerks makes, and he loves his. Goes so far as to say "If you have a PA, you owe yourself one of these". Check that out on his blog. I don't think you'll have horror stories, but you do need to get the sizing right. I ordered a SecuroCage02 from Steelworxx and thou...
by Schnoff
Tue Feb 27, 2018 7:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: More on airports
Replies: 3
Views: 1765
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Re: More on airports

I don't know that airport personnel truly care. Depending on where you're flying out of, they've seen just about everything by now - especially with the scatter body scanners.
by Schnoff
Tue Feb 27, 2018 7:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap-ons...
Replies: 30
Views: 10196
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Re: Strap-ons...

Not for now, and not so much a strap-on as a cock sheath. The damn thing doesn't fit Bear - one more reason to lose weight, haha. It's this thing over here: https://bad-dragon.com/products/magnussheath and Bear really loves the idea of plowing me with that knot, because sensations and my reaction to...
by Schnoff
Thu Jan 04, 2018 5:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Transactional Chastity
Replies: 15
Views: 4797
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Re: Transactional Chastity

[quote="slave d"Perhaps i’ve misconstrued what was intended and in that case i apologise, but i’m certainly not about to take advice from somebody to “decouple chores from” anything i wish !! [/quote] Fair enough. I was responding to the OP, and their situation in their marriage. Because of the worr...
by Schnoff
Fri Dec 15, 2017 4:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and SPH
Replies: 13
Views: 4547
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Re: Chastity and SPH

> I worry that this thread makes me come across like some kind of pervert Eh, define "some kind of pervert". Ask most folk, and wearing a chastity device - or coming only with permission - puts you squarely in that box, anyway. Relax. You are among Internet friends. :D Personally, no, orgasm denial ...
by Schnoff
Fri Dec 15, 2017 4:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did we get here?
Replies: 13
Views: 4823
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Re: How did we get here?

> I was wondering how people arrived at the chastity fetish. Masturbatory habits from teenage years to start with: I've always loved being aroused for extended periods of time. Not that I scoffed at orgasm, mind you. And then a partner, now my husband, who said "I want to decide when you come". It's...
by Schnoff
Fri Dec 15, 2017 3:55 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity chat
Replies: 12
Views: 4290
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Re: Chastity chat

We've added something to our routine recently, at the urging of Mistress Sky, our mentor. We've got daily touch points now, and they really help with feeling connected. One of those is that my husband asks me in the evening how I'd been doing with orgasm denial that day. I have a chance to share, an...
by Schnoff
Fri Dec 15, 2017 3:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Transactional Chastity
Replies: 15
Views: 4797
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Re: Transactional Chastity

In our case, there is a power dynamic on top of the marriage. I don't come because my husband doesn't want me to, not because it "keeps me on my best behavior". Household chores are shared. They should be anyway, with or without a power dynamic or chastity or anything of that sort. The "usual tools"...
by Schnoff
Thu Nov 16, 2017 5:02 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 236
Views: 53078
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Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

I’ve been asking her to see someone for twelve years. I would have no problem going to see someone together, but I’m pretty sure it’s not me, and together wouldn’t be as productive as her getting some work done on her own. That was kinda where I was at, years ago. It turns out, it's never just one ...
by Schnoff
Thu Nov 16, 2017 4:28 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"
Replies: 21
Views: 9467
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Re: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

Boy do I know that "needy submissive" who needs to hear that their D-type is really enjoying with they're doing. "You're not just doing this for me, are you?" That doubt, it turns out, wasn't helpful, at least not around here. Things are better when I just trust that Bear wouldn't be doing what he's...