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If I have any idea of the time frame, it seems to ruin the entire experience for both of us. The anticipation of the possibility seems to be very key to my maintaining a good attitude. If I know it’s just not going to happen, I just kind of get moody. If there’s always the possibility that it could ...

I highly recommend avoiding any spikes, or even small bumps inside the cage. I totally understand the thought; I even have one that I thought would help keep things in place. The reality is that they don’t help keep anything from moving around, and eventually are nothing more than an impediment to l...

We had an encounter last night that came very close to ending in denial, and I have no idea why it didn't. She kept saying it was 'almost' time, and maybe we should, but then she didn't. Maybe our next encounter ... maybe not. I'm definitely in the zone of wanting to be denied. It's even more import...

I don't stay locked up all the time, but during a locked up period, my wife might take the cage off to have sex, or she might not. It took her a while to realize that she could leave it on, and I would be okay with that. Once she understood that, it stayed on for a lot more encounters.

I think my wife and I are in a similar situation as TwistedMister. For my wife and I, sexual activity outside of the 'game' includes all kinds of things in addition to intercourse, and intercourse is generally not what gets my wife to her orgasm. She thoroughly enjoys it, but it's not enough. As a r...

In the past, when my wife would deny my orgasms, it usually lasted one or two months tops, and then wouldn't happen again for almost a year. Under those circumstances, her allowing my orgasm, while amazing in the moment, was always a let down the next day. This past spring, we went much longer (thre...

I'm struggling a lot with waiting this out. After having such a successful taste earlier this year, I'm just not interested in being perfectly vanilla anymore. Unfortunately, I've also become very aware that solo play in this arena holds zero appeal for me. I really need her to come back to this on ...

I'm not locked up right now, and we haven't been able to play for a while, but ... When we were playing last time, and I was locked finally longer than I actually wanted to be, it felt amazing to me. Knowing that it wasn't my decision, not knowing when I would be let out, knowing that I just had to ...

Likeitlocked - welcome to the forums.
I, for one (and I bet I'm not alone), would love to hear how you presented it, and how it was received.
But of course, only share what you're comfortable with...

Oh ... and I never quote AA, lol. I was addicted to alcohol, but after dealing with the actual underlying issue, I was able to move on. While I'm happy that AA will work to help some people reduce the damage their addiction does to them and those around them, I'm with you on being well over their ju...