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‘96 ... just moved to a big city from a small midwest town. I ventured into my first “real” sex toy store. My previous exposure had been limited to The Lion’s Den out by the highway. I was like a kid in a candy store with no guardian. Eventually, I settled on a leather strap and metal ring contrapti...

Small clue last night. May is busy, almost every weekend filled with family activities and trips. June 1st is currently empty. She’s thinking of getting us a babysitter and having her side of our long talk then, and she emphasized a couple of times that she is thinking, “giving over head space to it...

When I told my wife a few days ago that I was thinking of foregoing orgasms for a while, I also mentioned to her that I might wear the cage a bit, too. After the kids were in bed last night, I thought it might be a good time to do that, the first time in her presence since September. I kind of ‘clea...

In September, when things went wrong, I told this forum that it was an issue in my marriage unrelated to denial and chastity, and that was true. It’s an issue my wife carries into our marriage. I could probably be better about how I handle it sometimes. Since January, she’s been trying here and ther...

I do some ‘odd’ things when I’m left alone with my sex toys. One time, I tried tying butcher string to three places on the base ring, left, right and under, and then tied them all together around my waist and under my butt at the small of my back. A make-shift “harness” to keep the base ring from ha...

The dildo we use is almost exactly the same size as me. Not bragging, but my wife’s always been happy with my size.

Or at least I thought so. Her friend recently introduced her to Bad Dragon, and my wife wants to order one. I’ll be curious as to the sizing she decides upon.

Well, no. I found it on Amazon, and it’s no longer there or available. I’ll keep looking around other places to see if I can find it, or something similar. And in the meantime, I’ll make sure to take better care of the one I’ve got!! Edit: when I mentioned it above, I did not know it was no longer a...

Likewise, get a good harness that has 2 straps going underneath you, so you can put them on either side of the cage, and allow the "replacement" to ride lower on your hips for a more natural feel. I found a harness that’s supposed to be for double penetration. The dildo rests over a hole ...

Long talk last night, finally. Actual progress is still up in the air, but at least everything is finally out in the open. That part feels good.

Might need a ‘Chapter 3’ soon. That would be awesome. Or this could be the first post of an ‘Epilogue.’ That would suck.

No one’s talking about the UTI aspect of the problem. I highly recommend Thumper’s Blog posts on his experience down this path. The TL;DR is that he started with “Yes, there is a risk of a UTI, but everything good in life comes with risks. I’ll accept the risk.” He ended up getting a UTI, and that c...