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by Jon Descer
Sun Jun 13, 2021 3:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Careful what you wish for
Replies: 1
Views: 2162

Re: Careful what you wish for

Well, I hope I don't sound preachy, but it's sad if you can't enjoy a kink because your husband will push it too far. That's "bad dom" right there--set some rules you both feel are fair and go with them, and you should obviously have a safeword to get out of it. But also, A sounds kinda du...
by Jon Descer
Sun Jun 13, 2021 3:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Poly-Friending yes, but no cuckolding
Replies: 7
Views: 4348

Re: Poly-Friending yes, but no cuckolding

I'm sort of with Tom here. Especially for two other reasons; just because he can't satisfy you with penetration doesn't mean it's therefore bad. He enjoys it, doesn't he, and you presumably care about him also enjoying himself? Especially since most women can't orgasm purely from penetration anyway....
by Jon Descer
Sun Jun 13, 2021 3:21 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Spiked Chamber
Replies: 38
Views: 29841

Re: Spiked Chamber

"Fear is the penis killer". That's how the line goes, right? I have never had that cage but I did have the kali's teeth style cuff from MCM (I lost it, apparently). The pain I get it from it is...weird. It's more like an intense itch, and it's only one side of my equipment. It was right en...
by Jon Descer
Sun May 30, 2021 12:23 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Is Rigid Chastity out of business?
Replies: 2
Views: 2179

Re: Is Rigid Chastity out of business?

I can't answer that particular question, but I can say that my experience with them was not the best in terms of customer service. They don't communicate well and my device also took FOREVER. I did, however, get everything I ordered and it was all great quality. With COVID and shipping delays, I wou...
by Jon Descer
Sun May 23, 2021 1:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long have you been married?
Replies: 145
Views: 248854

Re: How long have you been married?

0 days. Still, I am an optimist, though part of me wants to change cities because I definitely live in a "casual hook up" kind of place and that's not my bag.
by Jon Descer
Sun May 23, 2021 1:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ideas for a Chastity Tattoo Anyone?
Replies: 27
Views: 28615

Re: Ideas for a Chastity Tattoo Anyone?

Just throwing this out there, but these days, anything with a spade is going to look alot like those "BBC only" tattoos you see in porn (usually photoshop, admittedly). I mean, you do you, but if that's not the message you want to send, I thought it worth mentioning. I also see it more and...
by Jon Descer
Sun May 23, 2021 1:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Odd pain following a 'No cum' excersise
Replies: 4
Views: 3018

Re: Odd pain following a 'No cum' excersise

I too assume blue balls. Weird things happen when you deviate from the usual course of regular sexual activity/masturbation that always ends in ejaculation. Sometimes, I find orgasm to be almost painful if I've been denied, like the boys are trying to run a marathon after 2 months of binge watching ...
by Jon Descer
Sun May 23, 2021 1:38 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Prevent penis still getting hard behind base ring
Replies: 8
Views: 7559

Re: Prevent penis still getting hard behind base ring

My current set up is the first that really stops erections before they get any steam. It doesn’t pull away from my body, and I can feel erections being denied. Truly be careful what you wish for. I think the diameter made the difference for me. Even when length was perfect, any room in width lets i...
by Jon Descer
Sat May 15, 2021 3:02 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Prevent penis still getting hard behind base ring
Replies: 8
Views: 7559

Re: Prevent penis still getting hard behind base ring

That only happens to me when i am wearing my Curve which is too long for me which allows erections to get started. As my penis begins to grow within the tube, its girth increases, and the device pulls away from my body. My custom made Mature Metal devices fit perfectly so erections never start, and...
by Jon Descer
Wed May 12, 2021 10:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Discreet Day to day wear
Replies: 7
Views: 6833

Re: Discreet Day to day wear

1) The biggest factor is probably just cage size, and the CB line, as mentioned, runs long. I've not been at this nearly as long as many here, but even I have noticed how "fitting guides" have gradually decreased recommended cage length, as folks have proven that, yeah, you can wear a cage...