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by Jedi
Sun Jun 28, 2015 1:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Talking to the wife
Replies: 30
Views: 7213

Re: Talking to the wife

I highly suggest Sarah Jameson's book "Be Careful What You Wish For" as it does an incredible job of explaining enforced chastity in a non-threatening manner. It is specifically written for the EXACT situation you are in. 90% of the book is written for your wife, not for you, and will help her not o...
by Jedi
Sun Jun 07, 2015 11:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Vasectomies and scar tissue
Replies: 9
Views: 1765

Re: Vasectomies and scar tissue

I have a similar issue with the scar tissue and flare ups. I can tell you that with the Steelworxx Steelheart, I have not had any issues... so that may resolve the problem.
by Jedi
Sun May 31, 2015 1:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 558
Views: 209338

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

Last week I was allowed an orgasm after a moderate length lock-up (69 days). As is usual, I was tied spread eagle to the bed and Jewels had complete control. After she finally allowed me to orgasm, she moved up so that I could lick her clean. Instead of just sitting on my face, as she has done in th...
by Jedi
Mon Apr 27, 2015 9:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you have release dates
Replies: 12
Views: 2784

Re: Do you have release dates

Generally my wife will set a not before date, meaning that I will not be released before that date or event occurs. One of the longest was an October day when my parents told us that they were taking our family with them to Hawaii the next June. My wife looked at me and whispered "well, now we know ...
by Jedi
Thu Apr 02, 2015 11:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male Ego
Replies: 21
Views: 4598

Re: Male Ego

It sounds to me like the biggest problem is that his definition of manly and your definition are different. For my wife and I, I could care less about fitting the societal definition of manly, so long as my wife thinks I am the man for her.
by Jedi
Sun Mar 29, 2015 8:02 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Disappointed with Steelworxx
Replies: 17
Views: 5606

Re: Disappointed with Steelworxx

I have had a Steelworks Steelheart for three years now and have never experienced any problems with the lock. When you experienced the problem, did you try something like WD-40 to release any materials that might have gotten lodged in the lock? Also, for the long periods, was it 100% locked for that...
by Jedi
Tue Mar 24, 2015 8:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Warming the Replacement
Replies: 6
Views: 1749

Warming the Replacement

My wife and I have used a strap-on for a while now as a replacement for PIV intercourse while I am locked. While she enjoys it, one of her complaints is that the replacement is not as warm as the real thing. This takes away from her being able to view it as a complete replacement like we had hoped. ...
by Jedi
Tue Mar 17, 2015 11:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How many erections do you have while sleeping?
Replies: 9
Views: 2024

Re: How many erections do you have while sleeping?

During the initial period of lockup after an extended break, I wake up about 3-4 times a night. It takes about 2 weeks for my body to adjust to being locked up, at which time the night erections seem to go away.
by Jedi
Thu Feb 12, 2015 1:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Key on Display
Replies: 27
Views: 6166

Re: Key on Display

My wife LOVES keys, in particular unique antique skeleton keys. Because of this, it is only natural for her to wear a necklace with a key. For a while she wore the actual key to the integrated lock on my steelheart device. She stopped doing that in favor of wearing one of several skeleton key pendan...
by Jedi
Fri Jan 09, 2015 3:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Can you ask to cum?
Replies: 16
Views: 3216

Re: Can you ask to cum?

I just discussed this question with my wife this evening, as we are starting a new period of enforced chastity after a long break. The answer was a mixed bag... I am allowed, even encouraged, to ask/beg for sex/orgasms while not engaged in any intimate activity, but while we are playing I am not all...