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by michaelnmelissa
Sat Nov 13, 2010 5:36 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New here
Replies: 6
Views: 3704

Re: New here

Welcome to the group. My wife and I are new to this too (about one month).

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 12, 2010 6:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Took The Next Step
Replies: 3
Views: 2662

Took The Next Step

I just ordered the sizing rings from Mature Metal. It was exciting to look at the Jailbird online with Melissa. I do believe she's seeing beyond how it "looks funny" to all the benefits and fun it will bring us. I expect it will be a few weeks until I am locked up...aarrgghh...so hard to wait! Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 12, 2010 8:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Pull Out
Replies: 17
Views: 7500

Re: Pull Out

Dev: Thanks for the input. Melissa and I would like me to be in the device for extended periods. Thumper: Great advice - thanks. Why will the ring feel huge a year later? From being used to it? I think I read somewhere that being in chastity long enough makes a man's balls hang lower. Is that true? ...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 12, 2010 8:06 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Pull Out
Replies: 17
Views: 7500

Re: Pull Out

Atone: Yes, I meant the ring that fits around the testes. I am ordering the sizing rings today. That should help me figure it out. Dev: I'm torn between the Jailbird and the Watchful Mistress. We can't get them both so I have to decide. I like the look of the Jailbird more, but the Mistress covers m...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 12, 2010 6:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Pull Out
Replies: 17
Views: 7500

Pull Out

Hi all, I was wondering - just how snug should the base ring fit? I imagine it should not be easy to get into it, and it should be even more difficult to get out. Is the anti-pullout option worth it? Is it more easy than not to pull out otherwise? I know no device is perfect, and the mind is the mos...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 9:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question
Replies: 44
Views: 16714

Re: Question

I think my wife is like Belle. She loves oral when in the mood, but she enjoys penetration too much to leave me locked for very long. Now, she may not let me cum often, but I think she will want me inside her for her sake if not mine.

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question
Replies: 44
Views: 16714

Question

I'm curious how long each man stays locked up without being released for tease and denial? Being new, I suppose I've been thinking it should be often but now I'm not so sure. I know each couple will be different, but is it generally true you're locked up more often than not? Are you released and tea...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Other Ways It's Fun
Replies: 2
Views: 2333

Other Ways It's Fun

For me, it's just not the actual sexual activity (or not) involved with male chastity that I find exciting. I like simply talking about it with my wife. Let me give you an example. Monday night I gave Melissa an hour long, head to toe massage. It was wonderful for me just giving her that pleasure, e...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 10:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sharing My Good News...
Replies: 5
Views: 3122

Re: Sharing My Good News...

Thanks Dev. I hadn't thought there might be a waiting list for the sizing rings. I am impatient already!

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sharing My Good News...
Replies: 5
Views: 3122

Sharing My Good News...

...with folks who will understand: Melissa and I talked some more about it tonight and she's on board with ordering a Jailbird device. So, I will be sending off for the sizing rings here soon. I'm so happy she saw how much I'd like my freedom to be solely her choice. The honor system, to her, said t...