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by fuzzydunlop
Wed Sep 12, 2018 7:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: P*ssy Free Drought Ends
Replies: 6
Views: 243

Re: P*ssy Free Drought Ends

I hear you, and we've played with a very wide range of behavior on this, including screwing without me cumming, which she sometimes enjoys. She also enjoys me cumming sometimes, and sometimes, despite my best efforts, there is only so long I can go. In all truthfulness, I would not be interested in ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Sep 11, 2018 5:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: P*ssy Free Drought Ends
Replies: 6
Views: 243

P*ssy Free Drought Ends

So, we ended a 56 day streak where I was denied full intercourse. A lot happened over the summer, including getting cuckolded by a lesbian, playing a scene at a sex club with wife in front of a female friend, and pegging. Several caged, ruined orgasms took place. Last night, I was placed in total se...
by fuzzydunlop
Sun Aug 19, 2018 6:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wankwatchers - Monthly Points
Replies: 4
Views: 206

Re: Wankwatchers - Monthly Points

Correct. I somehow haven’t wanked in six months, with a device rarely used. It started out by trying to go a week, and then a month, and then longer to focus on other parts of our sex life. Now we’ve gotten to six months.
by fuzzydunlop
Sun Aug 19, 2018 2:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wankwatchers - Monthly Points
Replies: 4
Views: 206

Wankwatchers - Monthly Points

We don’t use locked devices very much. I like the idea of them and sometimes use them, but we’ve never used them for the long term. Also, denial is the the hottest part of this for me. We’ve sometimes gone very long with very strict denial, but the longer the denial the harder it is to start over. S...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Aug 07, 2018 11:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Health issues/ED
Replies: 2
Views: 187

Health issues/ED

I was wondering if anyone practices chastity because of underlying health issues, and it takes the pressure off the sex life, and/or allows an “alternative” sex life. I am really confused by another couple that is having trouble with sex life. They haven’t had sex in a very long time. Wife finally d...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 7:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dick shrink- fiction or reality?
Replies: 3
Views: 427

Re: Dick shrink- fiction or reality?

Fiction, as are most “concerns” that don’t involve skin integrity or hygiene.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 3:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Negative effects on Relationship?
Replies: 18
Views: 1710

Re: Negative effects on Relationship?

It’s easy to get so carried away by any practice or style to forget a partner’s needs. What does somebody mean by “chastity”? Wearing a cage sometimes? Total denial? Also, needs change as relationships evolve. Sex is fun. Variety is fun.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 28
Views: 1826

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

Chastity can be a way of slowing down sex and de-emphasizing immediate gratification, but it can be overstated that this somehow makes the man “selfless”. It is a different kind of high, and if you are in a long term relationship, you have to try to connect multiple ways.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 28
Views: 1826

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

Yes my wife uses toys, but a partner’s needs can go beyond the physical need. We’ve been kinky together for over 20 years and have had a lot of different phases. I can be a little too “in my head”. If she thinks I am dwelling on my own kinks more than “connecting” that can be a problem. This problem...
by fuzzydunlop
Fri Jun 29, 2018 2:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 28
Views: 1826

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

What is the current most popular device for everyday long term wear? This is a reoccurring question posted elsewhere, I know. But I am asking here because there are some really long term wearers on this thread, and it’s a far less theoritical question here, to this audience. What if I wanted maximum...