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by fuzzydunlop
Sun Nov 10, 2019 12:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: LOctober debriefing. How did everyone make out?
Replies: 14
Views: 848

Re: LOctober debriefing. How did everyone make out?

She's really limited me since we went on vacation in summer. We had PIV once in October and nothing else in October. This morning, we fooled around for an extended time. I thought I was going to get nothing, but she let me use my hands on her while she used her vibrator. Nothing for me.
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Oct 21, 2019 8:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Help with ruined orgasms?
Replies: 14
Views: 1393

Re: Help with ruined orgasms?

we've been together a long time, but only recently played with ruined orgasms the last few years. At some point, my wife developed an interest in it, and i haven't had a non-ruined hand job in over a year now. we never specifically agreed to this, and when she plays with me, I always have some hope ...
by fuzzydunlop
Fri Mar 01, 2019 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 874

Re: Orgasms and Insomnia

Sometimes I sleep really well too. In fact, I usually fall asleep. But a certain percentage of the time, I end up having "middle of the night insomnia"---I wake up and have problems settling down a few hours later. This can also happen after big social situations, drinking, big meals, and exercise. ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 19, 2019 9:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 874

Orgasms and Insomnia

I have a sleep disorder and various things trigger it. It's been a lot better over the last year, which has coincided with no wanking at all. Over the last few months, it's been either PIV sex, or a ruined hand job, and nothing else. This has equaled about 2-4 orgasms a month, half ruined. And vario...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 12, 2019 2:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The secret might be out . . .
Replies: 14
Views: 2500

Re: The secret might be out . . .

Tease, denial and control runs a lot broader than cock cages. I was out with my wife and a female friend the other night and we all had a little too much to drink. Friend told me she is sometimes "mean" to her boyfriend. I asked her what she meant. She likes to tease him and not let him have sex som...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 1877

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

It's February 5th, and I still have had only one real orgasm all year. There was another time when it slowly spurted and oozed with no real climax. Still, it's February, and we've been really busy, so there has been little play time. The result is some "blues" even though its been 15 days since that...
by fuzzydunlop
Thu Jan 24, 2019 12:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 1877

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

I like your focus on the partner, @fuzzydunlop . “It’s not service if they don’t want it”. I know Bear enjoys making me come, so I am grateful when he does - and grateful when he doesn’t. I am curious. You say “eventually the novelty and high wears off”. In your experience, how long did that take? ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jan 22, 2019 4:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 1877

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

If you play with this with a partner long enough, you will realize there isn’t a perfect way to manipulate your hormones. Even when you hold out indefinitely, eventually the novelty and high wears off as your body adjusts. Also, if your partner enjoys giving you an orgasm, and you hold out, you can ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jan 15, 2019 3:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Still no orgasm this year....
Replies: 3
Views: 860

Still no orgasm this year....

Do you ever really feel in your gut that you are getting close to your emotional limits? We’ve been on an epic streak of denial play for about a year, where it’s not totally gone away. I haven’t MB’d at all. About half my orgasms are from ruined handjobs. The other half from PIV. The last time I had...
by fuzzydunlop
Thu Jan 10, 2019 2:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Conflicted
Replies: 9
Views: 1560

Re: Conflicted

Embrace the conflict and realize that the conflict will exist some of the time. My wife is kinky, GGG on denial, and we’ve been at it 20+ years. There are likely going to be times when your wife wants regular sex and if you want to please her and keep balance, going a few days with a let down is par...