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by fuzzydunlop
Fri Mar 01, 2019 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 453

Re: Orgasms and Insomnia

Sometimes I sleep really well too. In fact, I usually fall asleep. But a certain percentage of the time, I end up having "middle of the night insomnia"---I wake up and have problems settling down a few hours later. This can also happen after big social situations, drinking, big meals, and exercise. ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 19, 2019 9:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 453

Orgasms and Insomnia

I have a sleep disorder and various things trigger it. It's been a lot better over the last year, which has coincided with no wanking at all. Over the last few months, it's been either PIV sex, or a ruined hand job, and nothing else. This has equaled about 2-4 orgasms a month, half ruined. And vario...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 12, 2019 2:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The secret might be out . . .
Replies: 14
Views: 1311

Re: The secret might be out . . .

Tease, denial and control runs a lot broader than cock cages. I was out with my wife and a female friend the other night and we all had a little too much to drink. Friend told me she is sometimes "mean" to her boyfriend. I asked her what she meant. She likes to tease him and not let him have sex som...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 968

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

It's February 5th, and I still have had only one real orgasm all year. There was another time when it slowly spurted and oozed with no real climax. Still, it's February, and we've been really busy, so there has been little play time. The result is some "blues" even though its been 15 days since that...
by fuzzydunlop
Thu Jan 24, 2019 12:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 968

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

I like your focus on the partner, @fuzzydunlop . “It’s not service if they don’t want it”. I know Bear enjoys making me come, so I am grateful when he does - and grateful when he doesn’t. I am curious. You say “eventually the novelty and high wears off”. In your experience, how long did that take? ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jan 22, 2019 4:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 968

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

If you play with this with a partner long enough, you will realize there isn’t a perfect way to manipulate your hormones. Even when you hold out indefinitely, eventually the novelty and high wears off as your body adjusts. Also, if your partner enjoys giving you an orgasm, and you hold out, you can ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jan 15, 2019 3:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Still no orgasm this year....
Replies: 3
Views: 507

Still no orgasm this year....

Do you ever really feel in your gut that you are getting close to your emotional limits? We’ve been on an epic streak of denial play for about a year, where it’s not totally gone away. I haven’t MB’d at all. About half my orgasms are from ruined handjobs. The other half from PIV. The last time I had...
by fuzzydunlop
Thu Jan 10, 2019 2:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Conflicted
Replies: 9
Views: 990

Re: Conflicted

Embrace the conflict and realize that the conflict will exist some of the time. My wife is kinky, GGG on denial, and we’ve been at it 20+ years. There are likely going to be times when your wife wants regular sex and if you want to please her and keep balance, going a few days with a let down is par...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jan 08, 2019 8:48 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security
Replies: 16
Views: 1334

Re: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security

Tbh I’m jealous of all of you who need a Hitachi or some other deliberate effort to get off in your cage. Oddly enough I find it super easy to orgasm in my JB, to the point where I have to focus on NOT cumming much of the time when I’m aroused, even with no direct stimulation. Oh and my caged orgas...
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Jan 07, 2019 8:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked for the year ...
Replies: 13
Views: 1156

Re: Locked for the year ...

So a hot thing My Wife said this morning "that was hot...let's just keep having 'lesbian sex'". We were all set to watch Netflix last night. But while i was waiting for her, i went and got a nightgown, panties, and stockings. When She got under the covers, she teased me about my attire, but then rea...