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by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 7:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dick shrink- fiction or reality?
Replies: 3
Views: 263

Re: Dick shrink- fiction or reality?

Fiction, as are most “concerns” that don’t involve skin integrity or hygiene.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 3:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Negative effects on Relationship?
Replies: 18
Views: 1364

Re: Negative effects on Relationship?

It’s easy to get so carried away by any practice or style to forget a partner’s needs. What does somebody mean by “chastity”? Wearing a cage sometimes? Total denial? Also, needs change as relationships evolve. Sex is fun. Variety is fun.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 26
Views: 1231

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

Chastity can be a way of slowing down sex and de-emphasizing immediate gratification, but it can be overstated that this somehow makes the man “selfless”. It is a different kind of high, and if you are in a long term relationship, you have to try to connect multiple ways.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 26
Views: 1231

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

Yes my wife uses toys, but a partner’s needs can go beyond the physical need. We’ve been kinky together for over 20 years and have had a lot of different phases. I can be a little too “in my head”. If she thinks I am dwelling on my own kinks more than “connecting” that can be a problem. This problem...
by fuzzydunlop
Fri Jun 29, 2018 2:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 26
Views: 1231

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

What is the current most popular device for everyday long term wear? This is a reoccurring question posted elsewhere, I know. But I am asking here because there are some really long term wearers on this thread, and it’s a far less theoritical question here, to this audience. What if I wanted maximum...
by fuzzydunlop
Wed Jun 27, 2018 7:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 26
Views: 1231

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

The fantasy of long term lock ups is fun, but for most people, cock cages are fun toys that are a sometimes thing.
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jun 26, 2018 6:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Negative effects on Relationship?
Replies: 18
Views: 1364

Re: Negative effects on Relationship?

Nothing that dramatic---but we've been together 21 years. Nothing---jobs, family, everyday life---isn't black and white. She's very open minded, but sometimes our sex life is on fire, and sometimes life gets in t All that being said---we went to a sex therapist after 20 years, and it's added a new d...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Jun 26, 2018 6:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 26
Views: 1231

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

We've been in a relationship for 21 years. That includes marriage, kids, moving, job changes, ups and downs. Somethings come in style for a while, and then circumstances change. Over a very long period times, there are 1,000,001 things we sometimes enjoy with our partners and sometimes need a break ...
by fuzzydunlop
Thu Apr 26, 2018 12:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: That Empty Feeling
Replies: 6
Views: 797

Re: That Empty Feeling

I try to think of the let down as a hangover that will pass if you push through. I also find the longer I go between orgasms, the longer the hangover. “Starting over” can seem overwhelming at first, but can reignite the excitement if you can be ready to muddle through the first few days. Also, we’ve...
by fuzzydunlop
Fri Apr 20, 2018 4:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and Erectile Mal Functioning
Replies: 10
Views: 2406

Re: Chastity and Erectile Mal Functioning

Anxiety can take on a life of its own, and everyone can respond a little bit differently. For whatever reason, my fight or flight response gets triggered very easily. When this happens, I clam up and blood doesn’t flow as easily. Not everyone will understand what this is like. When I was young and i...