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by fuzzydunlop
Mon Mar 02, 2020 7:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So how is 2020 going?
Replies: 43
Views: 13482

Re: So how is 2020 going?

@fuzzydunlop we try to at least have conversations since we haven't been able to have any kinky play time... We are dealing with A LOT right now and we are into March already. Somethings gotta give at some point. This has been the worst start to a year ever and you all don't even know the half of i...
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Feb 17, 2020 7:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So how is 2020 going?
Replies: 43
Views: 13482

Re: So how is 2020 going?

I wish 2020 started out better... A month ago I slipped on the ice and broke a rib, hurt my elbow and took a chunk out of my leg. My hubby just had back surgery... Things have just been a mess. That sucks. If you use erotic denial as a lifestyle that helps you cope with life, what do you do when li...
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Feb 17, 2020 7:45 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So how is 2020 going?
Replies: 43
Views: 13482

Re: So how is 2020 going?

We've had some great kinky fun, but then also some major and terrible life stress, which has left both of us feeling a little deflated. I haven't wanked in close two years. My patience is being tested through no fault of my Wife. Trying to figure out some catharsis that doesn't ask anything of her b...
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Feb 17, 2020 7:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Help with ruined orgasms?
Replies: 19
Views: 5838

Re: Help with ruined orgasms?

Thanks @fuzzydunlop. So far all the experimenting has been on my own -- she hasn't shown interest in bringing me to a ruined O. Aside from having some fun, I've been trying to learn what it is and how to get there (and not further) on my own, in hopes that she'll become interested in adding it to h...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Dec 10, 2019 7:49 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
Replies: 52
Views: 3838

Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix

Hard numbers....mmmmm....
by fuzzydunlop
Sun Nov 10, 2019 12:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: LOctober debriefing. How did everyone make out?
Replies: 14
Views: 2428

Re: LOctober debriefing. How did everyone make out?

She's really limited me since we went on vacation in summer. We had PIV once in October and nothing else in October. This morning, we fooled around for an extended time. I thought I was going to get nothing, but she let me use my hands on her while she used her vibrator. Nothing for me.
by fuzzydunlop
Mon Oct 21, 2019 8:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Help with ruined orgasms?
Replies: 19
Views: 5838

Re: Help with ruined orgasms?

we've been together a long time, but only recently played with ruined orgasms the last few years. At some point, my wife developed an interest in it, and i haven't had a non-ruined hand job in over a year now. we never specifically agreed to this, and when she plays with me, I always have some hope ...
by fuzzydunlop
Fri Mar 01, 2019 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 1113

Re: Orgasms and Insomnia

Sometimes I sleep really well too. In fact, I usually fall asleep. But a certain percentage of the time, I end up having "middle of the night insomnia"---I wake up and have problems settling down a few hours later. This can also happen after big social situations, drinking, big meals, and exercise. ...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 19, 2019 9:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasms and Insomnia
Replies: 5
Views: 1113

Orgasms and Insomnia

I have a sleep disorder and various things trigger it. It's been a lot better over the last year, which has coincided with no wanking at all. Over the last few months, it's been either PIV sex, or a ruined hand job, and nothing else. This has equaled about 2-4 orgasms a month, half ruined. And vario...
by fuzzydunlop
Tue Feb 12, 2019 2:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The secret might be out . . .
Replies: 14
Views: 2985

Re: The secret might be out . . .

Tease, denial and control runs a lot broader than cock cages. I was out with my wife and a female friend the other night and we all had a little too much to drink. Friend told me she is sometimes "mean" to her boyfriend. I asked her what she meant. She likes to tease him and not let him have sex som...