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by James
Sun Jan 02, 2011 8:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Contracts
Replies: 23
Views: 12872

Re: Contracts

Wow, so much good advice so far, I'm not sure I can add anything of substance. My KH and I have a contract, it was my idea (duhh). Drawing it up was a good exercise and helped us (me) separate some of my fantasies from our reality. Since we signed this contract, 8 months or so ago, we've completely ...
by James
Wed Dec 29, 2010 8:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: She Won't Go Back
Replies: 51
Views: 26016

Re: She Won't Go Back

I find that in our relationship the issue of chastity continues to change. We have had real communication issues since we began this journey. Over the last couple of months I've tried to back off and give my wife/KH some space. While locked I typically get very little teasing or even an acknowledgme...
by James
Sun Dec 26, 2010 2:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Silent Members
Replies: 5
Views: 3915

Re: Silent Members

Hi all, I hope everyone had a merry Christmas (or which ever holiday you may celebrate). I'm guilty of being one of the silent ones I'm afraid. I guess I'm just quiet by nature. I do visit the forum daily though with much anticipation. Although I'm not particularly vocal I do feel like part of this ...
by James
Wed Dec 01, 2010 3:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Geezer Chastity
Replies: 12
Views: 6652

Re: Geezer Chastity

Finally, a thread that I can comment on. Speaking as someone who is very close (or maybe already there to some of you younger guys) to geezerdom I've given this a lot of thought. So mentally I'm as horny, or now that I'm locked up, more horny than than I was at 25. The chemistry is still there, but ...
by James
Thu Nov 18, 2010 1:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?
Replies: 33
Views: 16530

Re: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?

I was just thinking that a new thread might be more appropriate to continue this conversation, but alas I couldn't figure out how to start one. CQ, I appreciate your insight. Yes, I do tend to get a bit self centered. I keep working on this, but it is sometimes my downfall. I guess I'm a 64 year old...
by James
Wed Nov 17, 2010 5:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?
Replies: 33
Views: 16530

Re: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?

James, is she willing to read anything about MC? Or has she, eg, Sarah's book, various blogs? Just curious... D Dev, I started off by introducing my wife to Sarah's Chastity Guide. She skimmed over it, but didn't really read through it. Then I bought Sarah's excellent book and it has also gone unre...
by James
Wed Nov 17, 2010 12:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?
Replies: 33
Views: 16530

Re: What's Been The Biggest Surprise?

Its a relief to discover that I'm not the only one on this roller coaster of emotions. Since introducing MC to my wife Karen almost a year ago I've remained the eternal optimist. Hoping that at some point she would finally embrace MC. Still, she is at best a reluctant Keyholder. The most frustrating...
by James
Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:13 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Small when flacid, looking for the right purchase
Replies: 12
Views: 17385

Re: Small when flacid, looking for the right purchase

Hi, I'll make an attempt to answer some of Chimi's questions. First of all, I admit that I'm not nearly as experienced at chastity as many of the members of this forum, and am certainly no expert. I own, and use when traveling, a CB6X. My only other experience is in my Neosteel. So, with that in min...
by James
Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:20 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Small when flacid, looking for the right purchase
Replies: 12
Views: 17385

Re: Small when flacid, looking for the right purchase

Hi Chimi, I know you mentioned that price is a consideration, so I'm not really suggesting this is right for you. Justplaying mentioned that he didn't think a full belt would be any more secure than the devices he mentioned in his post. The truth is, if you throw enough money at this you can get a v...
by James
Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:49 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?
Replies: 34
Views: 24332

Re: Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see

I started with a CB6000 and found it to be quite comfortable, but not as secure as I wanted. After much angst I found the courage to order a Neosteel. The price was enough to take your breath away, but I guess you get what you pay for. I have a Masterpiece she-male,hip style, its a work of art and l...