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by finallyhappy
Thu Jan 03, 2013 4:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Starting out into chastity
Replies: 30
Views: 8809

Re: Starting out into chastity

With my gf, I explained it was to reduce masterbation and to take the pressured feeling off of her. Her response was that she wanted nothing to do with it and don't wear it around her, but feel free to do whatever it was I felt I needed to do. About a year later and her getting slowly used to things...
by finallyhappy
Thu Jan 03, 2013 4:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Behavior Modification
Replies: 12
Views: 5446

Re: Behavior Modification

Here's another vote for no demands but it sure does motivate you to be more pro-active at making her happy.
by finallyhappy
Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: that itch you just can't scratch
Replies: 4
Views: 2309

Re: that itch you just can't scratch

I happen to have an itch right now as a matter of fact. Even though I can get up and go to the men's room and address it, I prefer not to as a rule. It's an itch and it will pass in my mind it's just part of living life in a cage.
by finallyhappy
Thu Nov 08, 2012 12:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Unlocked, how often and for how long?
Replies: 18
Views: 9179

Re: Unlocked, how often and for how long?

My gf likes to keep me unlocked for about a week after I get to release. It is longer than I prefer but it us what makes her comfortable so I roll with it. And it does make sense to give him a break.
by finallyhappy
Thu Nov 01, 2012 12:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone know of a keyholder guide for only chastity?
Replies: 27
Views: 13117

Re: Anyone know of a keyholder guide for only chastity?

Sounds like you need two books. One on mind reading for her and one on anger management for you.

There is absolutely no reason for two people to be arguing about sex. It totally makes any situation worse. Relax, talk seek a middle ground.
by finallyhappy
Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to get her to extend time??
Replies: 22
Views: 6827

Re: How to get her to extend time??

Speaking of what society expected, I so remember when we first started playing at this, the first time I said to my gf that I didn't want to come, and wanted to be locked back up, I could see she was on the verge of tears because she just could not process it. Now she is in that "am I being a s...
by finallyhappy
Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:21 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What a lot of us desire!
Replies: 1
Views: 1447

Re: What a lot of us desire!

Agreed. My gf has come such a long way but still has guilt issues over keeping me locked up. I would definitely prefer longer lockups but also know that she has to come around to that at her own pace. I just enjoy watching her baby steps. And know that we'll get there and are still having fun in the...
by finallyhappy
Mon Oct 22, 2012 8:42 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Outed, sort of
Replies: 14
Views: 5097

Re: Outed, sort of

I was at a party on Sat night and my gf was home. So I was talking to this girl that I've known for several years and when the subject inevitablely came around to sex, I told her my gf keeps me locked up. Showed her websites so she could see what my queens keep looks like and what the cb6000 looks l...
by finallyhappy
Mon Oct 22, 2012 8:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: CBxxxx to metal
Replies: 11
Views: 4122

Re: CBxxxx to metal

I definitely had more arousal in plastic plus even some sensitivity in the metal. But would never dream of going back due to hygiene, visually better as per gf, and better for her teasing.
by finallyhappy
Fri Oct 19, 2012 1:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How do you guys deal with no orgasms?
Replies: 23
Views: 14228

Re: How do you guys deal with no orgasms?

Lol. After I cum, I am sleeping. Not even a question about it. GF understands this completely. Just looks at me and wishes she could.