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the wife has a crop she uses for punishments, but we haven't done that in a while. it was mostly about a chance for her to know she'd gotten her say in, and for me a chance to blow off some guilt and start fresh. I like slow build up, but she just goes to 11 from the start. if she wants it to be, it...

It fits intermittently. Depends on the weather, how tight my balls are, and if the day is odd or even. So I keep thinking that I'm going to get used to it. But a little strategic sanding shouldn't affect the security too much, and could make it more comfortable. I'll give it a spin, then dream of me...

I think you would have better luck making the 1 5/8" ring a little bigger by filing / sanding it down. If i do order metal, I'll get sizing rings first. I generally like the look of the MM designs better... For some reason, I haven't been able to bring myself to sand down the 5/8ths ring, for ...

Still working to find my right fit...and finding that I really am pretty solidly between the 1 3/4 and 1 5/8ths ring size. Any luck with the following: 1. Ordering from Mature Metal for custom ring sizes? They've got the same increments as the cbk devices...while steelworx has a 42mm size which is p...

Just in general in public, I often tend not to wear my device...it comes off when i leave the house, back on when i return. The times when i start wearing continuously are when I'm in a groove with it, and it doesn't feel noticeable to me, and it stops making a difference if it's on or not. If becau...

We mostly do some rewards, but it's never exactly tit for tat. The Princess will ask about what I'd like, and give me a chance to steer some of our play together if I've been doing well. But that's when she takes stock of things...not predetermined by a triggering event. I often choose giving her an...

The tsa blog actually mentions this. http://blog.tsa.gov/2012/06/tsa-week-in-review-inert-detonator.html Not prohibited is the phrase they use, but also go on to say that it can be a problem, especially if there is no key available. I think the message is that wearing one can trigger secondary scree...

We keep the key out. We use a plastic security screw, mostly to keep the noise/profile down as much as possible...so I'd put that plastic key in a locked box, and she kept the key to that with her...spare in an envelope. After a while, we just ended up leaving the main key out. Pullout is almost imp...

We practice similar periods of denial. I've usually found that days 4-7 are tough, a little calm, then it picks up again around 2 weeks. Ask for what you need in terms of aftercare. Giving someone a great orgasm is something worth thanking them for. I don't think falling asleep, leaving, etc..after ...

it is waaay easier for the introducee to get freaked out without some context of what you in particular are asking for, or why it's important to you and what you're hoping for. count this as a vote for "hey, let's talk about this idea i have..."