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PS - When I was teaching myself to orgasm without ejaculating I one time milked myself by mistake - that is when trying to prevent myself from ejaculating with orgasm I managed to not have the orgasm but the ejaculation happened with the cum just flowing out. When this happened I felt my erotic ener...

The book The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chai teaches the Taoist technique. I can assure you that this works. Because the orgasm doesn't have ejaculation the man can continue to orgasm for as long as he wishes. With Tao the decision of when to ejaculate is the mans, and one benefit of the technique...

The problem is that 'orgasm denial' is 'denial' and for most people denying something is cruel. If he does not want to ejaculate then it isn't denial (and it isn't cruel). There are some women who enjoy denying a male an ejaculation. But for most whatever you want needs to be explained in terms of w...

Thanks for posting a link to my Devotional Sex website Tom! Devotional Sex is very vanilla in that any BDSM activity is an optional extra. But I don't think of it as a FLR as this, for example as done by She Makes The Rules, is a naturally bossy woman taking control over most activities and thus him...

In the blog A Spanking Marriage Susan writes about deciding that her husband can, when he wishes, wear a chastity device when he is not with her and it is his responsibility - he manages the key. You can read this particular blog entry here . I'm no expert on chastity devices so perhaps it is no sur...

This is an interesting topic because it shows several things: 1 - Many still feel that sex is something that isn't discussed amongst friends. (I wonder how this differs between countries. Perhaps the USA is a bit more conservative than Europe and Australia?) 2 - Many of the men into chastity think i...

Devotional Sex has some similarities with chastity - with the biggest difference being that the man does not wear a chastity device. Perhaps this would be a half-way point that keeps your wife happy. One way to include a device in your lifestyle is that you wear a device whenever you are not with y...

@Chuck - thanks again for your support and encouragement. @jnuts - My recommendations for how long a Devotional Knight should go without ejaculating are very mild compared to what many of you do with Chastity, and I'm not personally concerned about what I do. As Chuck said, everyone should filter wh...

Thanks for your feedback Chuck. I've learned that it is pretty impossible to get the language right for everyone. For example many women find cock too crude, penis too clinical, lingam is real eastern mystical 'not of my world' language, etc. I also needed names for the roles, and whilst Princess an...

My second Princess, Emma, was kind enough to write a long review of her experience of Devotional Sex . One of the things she wrote was: In a Devotional Relationship, the quiet spaces, the breathing times, can be the most erotic and sensual of all your activities together. A Princess can set up ritua...