Search found 10 matches

by realme1976
Mon Feb 06, 2023 11:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Why Do This?
Replies: 11
Views: 4064
Gender:

Re: Why Do This?

Thanks to everyone who provided me their insights as to the "why" of male chastity. I've given it a lot of thought; I've reviewed other postings to this site; I've found a lot of help in Thumper's musings and Tom Arnold's writings. And I figured out why I do this. . I enjoy the eroticism o...
by realme1976
Tue Jan 31, 2023 11:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Why Do This?
Replies: 11
Views: 4064
Gender:

Why Do This?

I have to ask this question here in a "safe space" because I'm confused by the feelings I'm having. I experimented with wearing a cage for a few weeks a while back (I wrote about this in another posting), but stopped for various reasons. Now I've been caged for almost a month in an authent...
by realme1976
Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Issues with New Version of Holy Trainer?
Replies: 7
Views: 3709
Gender:

Issues with New Version of Holy Trainer?

I've been wearing a Holy Trainer nub, 40mm ring, for about three weeks--the one with the new push-button lock. However, I'm a little nervous. It's getting increasingly more difficult to unlock for cleaning. I put some WD-40 in the locking mechanism and that helped a little. I clean around the lockin...
by realme1976
Thu Dec 22, 2022 5:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to stop chafing and raw skin
Replies: 7
Views: 2066
Gender:

How to stop chafing and raw skin

I wear a Holy Trainer nub, 45mm ring. I have found that periodically I must remove it because the skin below my scrotum where the ring meets the balls gets red and raw. Does anyone have any suggestions about a salve or ointment or lotion that I can apply to reduce the redness and increase my long-te...
by realme1976
Wed Jul 20, 2022 11:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nervous,
Replies: 11
Views: 6119
Gender:

Re: Nervous,

I'm okay with taking off the cage to see the doctor since it breaks the "I'm not going to expose other people to my kinks" rule that I want to live by. No one is going to see it at the dentist's office, when you're on stage speaking to a large group nor just wandering about in public. I h...
by realme1976
Tue Jul 05, 2022 8:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and the Public Eye
Replies: 16
Views: 6760
Gender:

Re: Chastity and the Public Eye

Truly something that I never even considered when I was in a steel cage...but that kind of situation is exactly why I shifted from steel to the Holy Trainer. The sound of the padlock knocking against the cage--even though I tried to keep it still with a tight jock strap--to me was as loud as ringing...
by realme1976
Tue Jul 05, 2022 11:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and the Public Eye
Replies: 16
Views: 6760
Gender:

Re: Chastity and the Public Eye

Thanks for letting me know that I'm in good company with someone who understands our particular situation. This was the first time I've been so overtly in public and "on display," if you will. As chastity quickly becomes what I think is a natural state for me, I imagine that I'll soon cate...
by realme1976
Sun Jul 03, 2022 11:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and the Public Eye
Replies: 16
Views: 6760
Gender:

Chastity and the Public Eye

I ju st finished delivering remarks for my organization at a local Fourth of July celebration. I was on the stage in front of about 8,000 people--and I was in my Holy Trainer Nub and a black Mr. S. jock strap. And no one knew....not one in the 8,000 attendees knew about the kink that was separated f...
by realme1976
Tue Jun 14, 2022 2:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nervous,
Replies: 11
Views: 6119
Gender:

Re: Nervous,

I've been where you are, but I've gotten more comfortable with it. Just this past week I presided at a commencement ceremony of over 3000 attendees wearing the cage; spoke at a banquet of 500 wearing the cage; went through two therapy sessions wearing the cage. On my way to the dentist today, I'm we...
by realme1976
Mon Jun 13, 2022 9:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5514
Views: 2152465
Gender:

Re: "Hello world" thread

[finallyme1976] Thanks to you all for helping me discover myself For years, I struggled with this urge inside me, never acting on it due to a strict Baptist upbringing. That sense of guilt continued to pervade my life, through a decades-long marriage to a great woman, but still in the background. My...