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by NewYorkerLocked
Sat Aug 26, 2023 10:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Religious (non-kink) related reasons for wearing a chastity device or holding the key for someone.
Replies: 5
Views: 7572
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Religious (non-kink) related reasons for wearing a chastity device or holding the key for someone.

As far as I know, male chastity devices became popular, and therefore available, affordable, and accessible because of sex-related explorations, kinky fantasies, BDSM practices, or fetishes of an increasing number of consumers. However, I believe that these may not be the only reasons for someone to...
by NewYorkerLocked
Sat Aug 26, 2023 9:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any keyholders or caged folks in New York City?
Replies: 0
Views: 31195
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Any keyholders or caged folks in New York City?

I would like to contact both keyholders and caged folks in the area I live, just to meet, socialize, and share experiences. Thanks.
by NewYorkerLocked
Sat Aug 26, 2023 9:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What is it like to wear chasity permanently
Replies: 28
Views: 30369
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Re: What is it like to wear chasity permanently

If we can include people who periodically remove the device for taking a shower or bath, and clean themselves properly, thus preventing health issues or disagreeable odors or stains, then I suppose plenty of people are permanently in chastity (meaning: no sexual use of their penises), although proba...
by NewYorkerLocked
Sun May 14, 2023 9:08 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: Lacking Keyholder to Locking
Replies: 0
Views: 32043
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Lacking Keyholder to Locking

I am a 54-year-old straight male, wearing a chastity device for long term periods. I live in New York, and I would like to find someone, female, or male, who may be interested in socializing, developing trust, and eventually becoming a keyholder for me. Aside from chastity, I have a life with many o...
by NewYorkerLocked
Thu May 11, 2023 1:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: KeyHolding and Accountability
Replies: 5
Views: 7334
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KeyHolding and Accountability

Most chaste males here, including myself, have a partner who is our keyholder. I would like to learn about those who don't have one, how do they find a keyholder. In my case, although she continues to like (and prefer) non-penetrative sex, she lost interest in holding the key. I am seeking a potenti...
by NewYorkerLocked
Tue Oct 04, 2022 5:10 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.
Replies: 11
Views: 4563
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Re: [InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

Congratulations! Yours, would be my dream situation. Unfortunately my wife doesn't want to get involved in keyholding. However, she prefers me to be unlocked most of the time. We discussed the possibility of a Third Person to hold my key.
by NewYorkerLocked
Thu Jan 20, 2022 1:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 21
Views: 7310
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

It took a while for me to adjust as the durations got longer than one week then two weeks. It’s a gradual process. My owner in the last year observed that I function better without full orgasms. So, with similar intervals of 4 or 5 weeks, I’m most likely having a ruined orgasm. I don’t like it in t...
by NewYorkerLocked
Wed Jan 19, 2022 8:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 21
Views: 7310
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

Thanks pottahawk, Thanks everybody, I apologize, because I am now realizing that my previous post was confusing in the last paragraph. While trying to summarize the benefits of male chastity, I stated that I feel now more encouraged because: “…there are objective benefits. Not only for (1) the roman...
by NewYorkerLocked
Wed Jan 19, 2022 1:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 21
Views: 7310
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

Thanks again for your contributions. It looks like after some time, not only we “get used” to orgasming less and less often, but also, we end up preferring not orgasming at all. At least that is what most of you are telling. I am impressed. Also, you guys mention some discomfort after orgasming. I c...
by NewYorkerLocked
Wed Jan 19, 2022 12:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 21
Views: 7310
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

Do you guys actually feel better, the less often you cum?