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Ok - an update of sorts - don’t get too overexcited as it’s not really progress, but some increased understanding between me and my wife following some discussions and my reading a relationship blog that I value: 1) I am fairly sure my wife likes to be “ravaged” via PIV. She likes to be “dominated” ...

It’s an interesting idea to pressure one’s wife for sex. I would be pressuring her (or rather asking for it) a lot more if she didn’t insist on my orgasm… but as a result I think our frequency of activity is much lower because she doesn’t want it so frequently and because I only want to increase fre...

Now that would be an interesting question to know about everyone’s hiding places be that from their spouses or from their curious kids!

I have a drawer under my bed which ostensibly just contains a sleeping bag but if you put your hand all the way to the back of the drawer…

Very interesting. I wonder how many people found themselves in this position… As a general point when I browse this forum I am acutely aware that the regular posters who have successfully introduced chastity into their relationships are probably a self-selecting group, and what I really wonder is wh...

Tom - I guess you have the benefit of good intimacy related communication, which we haven’t quite developed so well, and guess where we are right now there is a lot of life admin with young kids etc so in our potentially intimate moments my wife’s default is to think about the next bit of life admin...

Thanks KBT - yes, all those criteria do not apply to my wife and this is where my question is coming from. I did have some issues with the same sort of addiction which I somehow partially managed to kick with self-locking (one relapse in 10 months) and a general realisation that sex is much better w...

Thanks Tom - so are you saying that your wife was relatively kink-averse and generally on the lower libido end of the scale before you sprung that line on her and started the wheels in motion? I do admire the casual approach of the line you used. Given how seriously I take this topic I doubt I would...

Hi everyone, I’m not currently in a pro-chastity or chastity-aware relationship with a pretty vanilla sex-life. I have read a number of “Journey” blogs and the general common denominator of those relationships where chastity has become the lifestyle seem to be the following: There has been some mutu...

This was a very interesting introduction - how are things progressing? The quiet since the original revelation post is hopefully a positive thing!

Hi everyone I am probably around 15 years into my journey, but have never experienced chastity or any serious OC in a relationship. I say 15 years because was around 15 years ago when I found myself returning time and time again to the world of orgasm denial/control, and what better manifestation of...