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by Connecticut_couple
Mon Dec 20, 2021 8:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prostate relief
Replies: 9
Views: 3545
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Re: Prostate relief

We have tried prostate play a few times but have found it's not really our thing. Instead, my wife gives me a ruined orgasm every now and then to relieve the pressure without providing a satisfying orgasm at the end.
by Connecticut_couple
Tue Aug 03, 2021 12:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Contract
Replies: 9
Views: 4552
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Re: Chastity Contract

We cobbled together a contract when we first started a few months ago based on ones we found online. We found ourselves editing bit a few times, basically adding things more and more in her favor. After a few times it just seems silly since we continue to evolve over time and she basically said she ...
by Connecticut_couple
Sun Jul 25, 2021 4:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long will it take til i forget I am wearing it
Replies: 11
Views: 3281
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Re: How long will it take til i forget I am wearing it

I have been wearing chastity cages for over 11 years. It was 3 months before I wore it 24/7 and sometime that year I kept forgetting that I was caged. However it was only after buying a custom made device. Now it is like my wedding ring. It is there but I do not think about it unless there is reaso...
by Connecticut_couple
Mon Jun 28, 2021 6:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time
Replies: 8
Views: 1957
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Re: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time

UPDATE On Saturday night we came home from a party and my wife was a little tipsy. When we went to bed, she said she needed me to fuck her. I reminded her that it wasn't allowed until my birthday in a few months but she didn't care. She said that she was the keyholder and she wanted me to fuck her n...
by Connecticut_couple
Sat Jun 26, 2021 9:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time
Replies: 8
Views: 1957
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Re: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time

I think that can be part of it, especially if you aren't getting any teasing/edging while being forbidden to ejaculate, which would exercise them. Going the opposite way, with a lot of teasing/edging while not permitted to ejaculate to strengthen the muscles, and causing 'ruined' orgasms, can resul...
by Connecticut_couple
Sat Jun 26, 2021 6:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time
Replies: 8
Views: 1957
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Re: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time

I have two thoughts on that; one is that orgasm denial is just a very strange thing. It's not really "natural" and our bodies and brains process it differently. I've read all sorts of weird experiences people have had. The other, more practical answer is that I wonder if something was off...
by Connecticut_couple
Fri Jun 25, 2021 6:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time
Replies: 8
Views: 1957
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Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time

So, for the first time ever I was denied a real orgasm by my wife for nearly 40 days. Up until that point I was horny every day. My wife finally gave me a BJ the other morning and the orgasm was frankly strange. It builded up to a very high intensity and then when I finally climaxed it was very shor...
by Connecticut_couple
Fri Apr 30, 2021 7:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Best vibrator for edging in a steel chastity cage?
Replies: 6
Views: 7702
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Best vibrator for edging in a steel chastity cage?

My wife tried to use some of her vibrators on my cage to tease me and bring me to the edge, but none of them have the power to stimulate me in a steel cage. I've hear the Hitachi Magic Wand brand supposedly works well. Does anyone have any experience with that? Better, yet, are there other similarly...
by Connecticut_couple
Mon Mar 22, 2021 2:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?
Replies: 4
Views: 2060
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Re: What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?

Short answer - not any more, I wouldn't thank you for a full orgasm nowadays. The only reason I ruin is because my wife likes to see it happen, and likes that I have to eat everything. Long answer - I started out with edging and T&D, leading to orgasm after some hours or days. For me, it was mo...
by Connecticut_couple
Mon Mar 22, 2021 8:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?
Replies: 4
Views: 2060
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What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?

As we've been experimenting with chastity and wearing my new cage most of the day, I haven't had a full orgasm now in 4 days. I did have a ruined orgasm yesterday but that didn't satisfy any urges. Today on day 4 my cock is so sensitive and gets hard at the slightest naughty thought. When I got out ...