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slave d wrote: ↑Tue Jul 14, 2020 6:00 pm FWIW i’m with Tom 100%, no orgasm is the most fantastic long term arousal level i’ve ever experienced and i’ll go out of my way to not “cum” properly ever again !!

MsM’s ld

What's your experience of ejaculation now then? Does it feel disappointing rather than a high?

In our case it was a few years of trial and error. I guess that's the key isn't it, it takes time and real effort. Until chastity devices are 100% secure and prevent ejaculation, then it's down to goal setting and honesty with a genuine interest in self development. How long did it take until you w...

I stumbled upon chastity as a way to potentially revive a struggling marriage. I figured why not give it a shot. I've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Surprise surprise, it's been working beautifully. That's a great success story! How did your wife first respond to your suggestion of cha...

This is really interesting that chastity cages aren't used to enforce denial - in the sample of this thread anyway. I'm curious if you're able to maintain long term denial because of a lower libido or just with lots of practice and conditioning? How did you all get to this stage - what's your best t...

Tom Allen wrote: ↑Tue Jul 14, 2020 12:26 pm I'm unlocked for doctors visits, travel, and long road cycling jaunts. It's been well over 2 years, maybe closer to 2-1/2, since I've had an uncaged orgasm. I don't even remember it.

Wow, that's incredible. Do you crave orgasm after such a long time of denial?

We wanted me conditioned to where I can be denied from all ejaculation for a year without a cage. Only when that was, within reason (*), achieved, was the cage added. I've not heard of orgasm denial achieved without a cage then introducing a cage. So is the cage more symbolic now or do you feel you...

Tom Allen wrote: ↑Tue Jul 14, 2020 11:18 am When I'm I locked? Not sure I understand the question.

I'm assuming, you're unlocked at some point throughout the year for orgasm? Feel like i've entered the realm of the Gods, you are all so controlled and have way more endurance than I do.

Obviously the chart numbers would be more appropriate for ejaculations per every 2 years for many of you haha. When you are unlocked what method of ejaculation do you usually get - sex, masturbation, ruined orgasm etc?

I wouldn't necessarily want to create the schedule myself, but I do like the idea of one. I also find that if i'm given the choice I feel like I can last longer being locked. It's interesting because it sounds similar to studies on pain stimulus, when participants are asked to endure a painful stimu...

Sounds like you all mostly prefer to keep your release data unknown and to have it decided at random by your keyholder. It's interesting that when the time of release comes you feel like you can remain locked for longer and get more enjoyment out of it. Is that something that comes with the choice o...