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by testingthewaters
Wed Aug 10, 2022 3:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: locked and forgot?
Replies: 19
Views: 31827
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Re: locked and forgot?

I absolutely agree with the general consensus here. I've been lucky enough to have had some chastity experiences play out in my post-divorce dating world, and it absolutely has not worked for me when being locked and forgotten. It's not solely about the restriction of chastity, it's the mutual enjoy...
by testingthewaters
Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 2605
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Re: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

I think you're on to something there, good sir. I've had longer lockup durations before, with less/no releases. But I'm finding this so pleasantly intense due to the "ownership" aspect of it.
by testingthewaters
Sun Nov 07, 2021 9:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 2605
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Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

My previous experiences with chastity in other relationships have been all essentially stints of lockup - i would be locked for a duration, then "freed" until the next time I would be locked. I found that could get kind of intense (though I will note that my locked time frames would be som...
by testingthewaters
Thu Sep 23, 2021 1:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locktober is "cuming" soon...What about you (expectation, concern, reflexions)
Replies: 41
Views: 16341
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Re: Locktober is "cuming" soon...What about you (expectation, concern, reflexions)

It was in the cards for me this year, but the relationship with my girlfriend/keyholder just ended a few days ago. So not me this year.
by testingthewaters
Sat Jun 26, 2021 9:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasm denial and male submission
Replies: 9
Views: 3481
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Re: Orgasm denial and male submission

Not to pile on here or anything, just more for clarification. What Tom said is how the group runs - this isn't a space of all BDSM and chastity role play. This is a more grounded and realistic forum - people aren't playing roles here, just discussing real world experiences. Don't get me wrong - role...
by testingthewaters
Fri Mar 05, 2021 6:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1028
Views: 1323053
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Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My girlfriend/keyholder and I live apart in different towns and usually get together around every weekend. I've been locked for the last month (that's a long time for me, very close to the longest I've been locked. I'm not as experienced as many members here). On her visit this weekend (last night, ...
by testingthewaters
Tue Feb 23, 2021 3:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Erections at night
Replies: 20
Views: 4058
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Re: Erections at night

Sounds like, as others have mentioned, fitment might be an issue for you. I know for me I tried a good few devices before I found one that was suitable for day and night wear. Another thing that might help could be fluid intake. I've found that I have more difficult mornings if I drink much liquid t...
by testingthewaters
Mon Aug 24, 2020 5:02 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: KittensBoyToy Hospitalized
Replies: 28
Views: 5447
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Re: KittensBoyToy Hospitalized

Best wishes on a speedy recovery, please take care. And condolences for the other news as well.
by testingthewaters
Mon Jul 20, 2020 7:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Increase in Chastity Due to COVID
Replies: 12
Views: 3546
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Re: Increase in Chastity Due to COVID

I saw an increase in it as well. Prior to COVID, the longest stint I had gone in chastity was 10 days. During the lockdown, my gf/kh made me go a little over a month. Definitely a change in intensity for me (though I'm sure those numbers of mine might be kind of laughable with the experiences of som...
by testingthewaters
Wed Jul 15, 2020 9:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife and device
Replies: 25
Views: 8201
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Re: Wife and device

@Schnoff me too good sir, me too.

Maybe it wasn't a big mistake? I suppose I'll find out in a few months when it arrives. Haha.