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by midlifelovelife
Sat Feb 25, 2023 2:29 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

This month, my wife has enjoyed teasing me about her ability to make me lose control… and it’s really getting in my head. Early in February, after some particularly good flirting between the two of us and a long full body massage for her, I edged myself in bed after she went to sleep. I have been qu...
by midlifelovelife
Sun Nov 06, 2022 6:39 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

It’s been a while since my last update. Still practicing orgasm control and still on the honour system without a cage. Still observing the effects that it has on me and our relationship. After an orgasm on October 7, I went over 2 weeks, until October 23rd. My wife noticed me getting hornier and ind...
by midlifelovelife
Fri Aug 19, 2022 5:46 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
Replies: 513
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Re: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back

If your C has a lower sex drive, I would love to hear about your sex life when it was higher. That woman has a pretty good appetite for sex, based on your stories!
by midlifelovelife
Tue Aug 02, 2022 6:25 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

It’s been a long time since I posted. I am still on the journey and managing to have orgasms only when my wife desires it. Being an honour system guy, I sometimes fail, teasing myself too far and cumming, but this hasn’t happened in months now, probably because my wife is giving me quite steady atte...
by midlifelovelife
Sun Apr 17, 2022 10:15 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

My wife seemed to have a bit of a light bulb moment this weekend. For many months now, she has enjoyed that my only orgasms are with her. She is getting very good at teasing me, but she is still 99% likely to let me cum when we are playing together and she has gotten off. This weekend was a good exa...
by midlifelovelife
Mon Mar 28, 2022 10:37 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

A wonderful new development two weekends ago. March is my birthday month and my wife had been asking me what I would like. Emboldened by our recent positive and sexy communication, I confided in her that I wanted to take a dildo up the ass. She had a few conditions: she wanted me to pick out and sho...
by midlifelovelife
Tue Mar 08, 2022 7:27 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

So my wife and I had a conversation about my transgression. Speaking of my abrupt ”rejection” of our recent playtime, she asked me if I would have done that if I hadn’t cum the night before. I told her I would absolutely not have allowed anything to get in the way because I was so horny and was thin...
by midlifelovelife
Fri Mar 04, 2022 10:55 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

I fell off the wagon recently. As an honour system guy, I find it’s not too hard to develop self-control when it comes to orgasms but it’s also not that hard to slip up. A couple of weeks ago, my wife suggested that I work from home one day and clear my calendar for some mid-morning playtime. She ma...
by midlifelovelife
Thu Jan 27, 2022 8:35 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
Views: 42589
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

Over two years into orgasm control, there are some unexpected things I am discovering. On the one hand, I am doing pretty well at the self-control aspect; I don’t jerk off at all and I have trained myself to consider it a transgression to do so. On the other hand, I have conditioned myself to associ...
by midlifelovelife
Mon Jan 24, 2022 7:18 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC
Replies: 61
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Re: [midlifelovelife] My Journey into OC

Just a short entry today. I have to write something because I can’t stop thinking about this. My wife told me about her Saturday masturbation session that she enjoyed while she had the house to herself and I was out with the kids. Her period had just finished, ending a few days of zero chance for se...