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by shyguy
Thu May 08, 2025 3:34 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Homemade Tetherspout modification
Replies: 3
Views: 8852
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Re: Homemade Tetherspout modification

I actually bought my "Tetherspout" from Aliexpress because there was no stock at the official website. I couldn't see how any of the cages that work with the Tetherspout were that secure since as far as I could see they just used a piece to screw on the end by hand. I wanted a way to preve...
by shyguy
Tue May 06, 2025 12:02 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Homemade Tetherspout modification
Replies: 3
Views: 8852
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Homemade Tetherspout modification

Hi all, I just want to share with you a little DIY mod I made. It's not perfect but I'm refining it and it it's very cheap. First I got my favourite cage: https://img4.dhresource.com/webp/m/0x0/f3/albu/km/t/10/9835c75b-60ce-433e-9d11-bf75f59fad00.jpg Then with my Tetherspout poking through the cage ...
by shyguy
Wed May 17, 2023 12:02 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked and porn
Replies: 34
Views: 36186
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Re: Locked and porn

I still watch porn quite a bit as a substitute for my non-existent sex life. I try to seek out less "acted" and more "real life" chastity scenes but I think I've seen just about everything now. The ones where the guy has been locked up for a month in a plastic tube, let out, teas...
by shyguy
Wed Sep 28, 2022 11:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: wonder why
Replies: 8
Views: 8762
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Re: wonder why

I read posts on CM occasionally and I don't agree straight people aren't accepted. The trouble with CM is it caters for *all* tastes so it can appear that way. If you drop into the "Chastity in vanilla life" section there are quite a few posts by heterosexual people in fairly "normal&...
by shyguy
Sun Aug 21, 2022 3:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?
Replies: 7
Views: 5918
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Re: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?

I've tried for several years to get her desire sparked again without success. She did visit a therapist for her low libido and was given guidance and a list of medication. She did nothing with it. You are of course right about getting ahead of myself. I just don't know what course to take. I thought...
by shyguy
Sun Aug 21, 2022 2:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?
Replies: 7
Views: 5918
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Re: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?

Well, the biggest question is why she's reluctant. My husband is endlessly inventive with sex and I've usually gone along with his ideas because they usually work out pretty well. Not that I have not said 'no' to some things, but we do well together. He asked for chastity several years ago, and I g...
by shyguy
Sat Aug 20, 2022 4:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?
Replies: 7
Views: 5918
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How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?

I'd be interested to hear how those locked got started if their key holder was initially reluctant to indulge in the kink.

Also if you are a key holder that didn't want to play in the beginning what was it that changed your mind?
by shyguy
Sat Jul 16, 2022 2:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: locked and forgot?
Replies: 22
Views: 75994
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Re: locked and forgot?

My keyholder is completely disinterested in me being locked because she has an extremely low libido. When I was locked for weeks I got zero attention which is the same as when I'm unlocked and it sucks. Yes, I felt the same - I didn't want to top from the bottom so I mostly said nothing and just bec...
by shyguy
Wed Jul 06, 2022 4:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Some Questions Before Jumping Off the Deep End
Replies: 9
Views: 6482
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Re: Some Questions Before Jumping Off the Deep End

I've gone through a *lot* of cages. Metal cages are generally best and the more open the cage the better for hygiene. The mistake I made was wanting the tightest, most secure cage from the start. Unless you are very lucky you need to start with a larger, more comfortable but less secure cage until y...
by shyguy
Thu Mar 10, 2022 6:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Negative effects on Relationship?
Replies: 29
Views: 18877
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Re: Negative effects on Relationship?

If your wife/partner is not into sex or sexy stuff in general then it can become the opposite of fun. In fact in my case my wife found the whole keyholder thing too much to think about so it became a pointless exercise. Putting the focus on either my cock or her pleasure when she's completely agains...