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by shyguy
Wed Jun 09, 2021 11:56 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [bikelock] Not entirely sure where this is going
Replies: 5
Views: 208
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Re: [bikelock] Not entirely sure where this is going

This sounds similar to how my wife is. She doesn't really prioritise sex and it takes literally weeks of build up to get her in the mood. We've gone years between having sex which caused the same feelings in me as it did you. I used to just let her decide when she was ready but since she never was i...
by shyguy
Wed Apr 21, 2021 11:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lock alternatives
Replies: 8
Views: 518
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Re: Lock alternatives

Of course it isn't secure but not many cages really are 100% secure. The tag ensures I haven't cheated. Even with a lock I could cut the cage off without too much trouble but that would be rather obvious. I am hoping to get to the properly locked stage but I have to ease her in and if she's not comf...
by shyguy
Wed Apr 21, 2021 9:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lock alternatives
Replies: 8
Views: 518
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Lock alternatives

One of the things that puts my Wife/KH off me wearing a device is having to get the key which ruins spontaniety. Currently she doesn't want to wear the key but I still want her to have control. I know there are bluetooth locks (again, too much faff) and fingerprint locks but my cages all use the mag...
by shyguy
Tue Apr 13, 2021 3:53 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Mamba ring sizing
Replies: 4
Views: 394
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Re: Mamba ring sizing

Oh wow - I'm sorry I posted that, Toby. I had no idea they are ripping you off. I'm still in the kind of discovery phase of buying the cheap devices until I can find one that works for me before committing a lot of money to a custom device. Maybe my question should be rephrased. I can't find a ring ...
by shyguy
Tue Apr 13, 2021 3:21 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Mamba ring sizing
Replies: 4
Views: 394
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Mamba ring sizing

I am currently wearing a plastic Mamba clone which seems to be the most comfortable and practical cage for me. However, it isn't perfect and I've just noticed there is a Mamba V6 with a shaped ring which looks like it might be perfect for me. It says: "the Mamba shape helps reduce erection stre...
by shyguy
Thu Oct 15, 2020 7:11 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Irritable vs docile
Replies: 5
Views: 740
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Re: Irritable vs docile

I totally agree with you. My wife/KH doesn't seem to understand this and I have never, ever had a tease and deny session which can be hard to handle sometimes. My irritibility seems to come in waves every few weeks. I'm currently in the docile part of my 'cycle' and rather than feeling neglected I a...
by shyguy
Thu Oct 01, 2020 10:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Completely denied (almost)
Replies: 17
Views: 3400
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Re: Completely denied (almost)

The biggest problem I have is that my wife has no sexual desire at all. Trying to talk to her about it gets her annoyed because she says I'm making it about my needs so I get nowhere. Once she was locking me after cleaning and said "I'm really fed up having to look at your dick" so now I l...
by shyguy
Thu Jul 09, 2020 3:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Completely denied (almost)
Replies: 17
Views: 3400
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Re: Completely denied (almost)

I guess I fall into this category most of the time. My last lock up was 181 days coupled with 197 days of no orgasms (for me). I can't say there is never any teasing or sexual attention but it is rare and far between. It has been said many times on the forum that wearing the cage is a constant remi...
by shyguy
Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Completely denied (almost)
Replies: 17
Views: 3400
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Completely denied (almost)

I was just wondering how many other of us locked men are virtually ignored. I'm locked 24x7 apart from brief periods for cleaning and my wife/KH enforces this quite strictly but does virtually nothing else. There is no teasing, fondling, edging or sex (apart from once which I think she didn't enjoy)...