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by Drewtoy
Mon Jan 13, 2020 12:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP
Replies: 21
Views: 12559
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Re: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP

Okay.
Firstly, thanks so much to all of you for taking the time to write. You didn’t have to, and I appreciate the
by Drewtoy
Sun Jan 12, 2020 7:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP
Replies: 21
Views: 12559
Gender:

Re: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP

Thanks Skip! I think the aspect I'm being unclear about is that my wife has been exploring light chastity play with others outside of our marriage (which is fine) but has lately been unofficially changing the terms of intimacy within our marriage, seemingly because of her positive experiences with c...
by Drewtoy
Sun Jan 12, 2020 12:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP
Replies: 21
Views: 12559
Gender:

Re: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP

Thanks. She doesn't want any sexual caressing at all. This is not strictly a "genitals" fixation, but an overall sexual denial. She seems to think that generous cuddling and affectionate attention should make a good substitute. AFAIC, it is not. We typically communicate rather well. So thi...
by Drewtoy
Sat Jan 11, 2020 3:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP
Replies: 21
Views: 12559
Gender:

Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP

Thank you to any who read this and could give constructive advice. My wife & I are mild Kinksters, with a relatively healthy shared perspective on matters of consent built over 10 years together. She is a natural domm and I am a submissive. We don't engage in degradation or "slave" lif...