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by Chastityat61
Tue Jan 21, 2020 12:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Replies: 47
Views: 8979

Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial

Try to remember this is your thing (your kink), your fantasy come to life.. maybe. Keep steady and know it may not be hers. My over excitement with it allowed for huge let down. Look over the previous posts..think it through and be ready for what ever answer comes.Good vibes to both!!
by Chastityat61
Wed Jan 15, 2020 11:37 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Replies: 47
Views: 8979

Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial

You will do just fine. Deep breath and relax.
by Chastityat61
Tue Jan 14, 2020 4:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Replies: 47
Views: 8979

Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial

There are several great members here.support is amazing..One post I read a while back had a statement that went something like.. " I must remember, I am the one in chastity, to her it's just another day. " I apply that idea to many of the thoughts I have towards chastity, in that I think a...
by Chastityat61
Tue Jan 14, 2020 11:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP
Replies: 21
Views: 12496

Re: Imposed Chastity Ruining Marriage-HELP

Seems to me after reading all the posts, you have been given the best advice one could possibly ask for. The going forward is now up to you. If you're so inclined, let us know how things worked out. Best to you both.
by Chastityat61
Tue Jan 07, 2020 7:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I'm about to bbe locked
Replies: 4
Views: 1294

Re: I'm about to bbe locked

Madman69 wrote: Tue Jan 07, 2020 4:02 pm OK so I'm about to be locked in Chastity for long term, I am a little worried as the device is a steel bulky thing. Any advice or tips?
There could be several questions about your adventures, so please keep us posted on your journey.
by Chastityat61
Tue Jan 07, 2020 7:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New dice for the new year
Replies: 14
Views: 3318

Re: New dice for the new year

I like the idea of using the dice and it's something that I'm starting to use with my wife. We are new to this and not using a device - we have used dice for the numbers of days and my wife gets to choose whether to use 6 or 12 sided dice. We have just used a random number generator though which gi...
by Chastityat61
Fri Jan 03, 2020 3:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm
Replies: 7
Views: 3189

Re: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm

My wife has told me that, it puts a certain amount of unwanted pressure on her to cum.. when I offer that we make love, to have her cum then me ,,maybe. She wants me to cum and sometimes has said she doesn't even care if she cums, just wants me to. I've heard the phrase, topping from the bottom. Sou...
by Chastityat61
Thu Jan 02, 2020 2:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New dice for the new year
Replies: 14
Views: 3318

Re: New dice for the new year

We are an older married couple. I brought home a device 10 years ago..or so, must have done it wrong from the start. She never embraced the idea of orgasm control or even being "kept for her". To her, a pointless silly notion from the start.Dropped it for 10 yrs. Last August bought a v3 sm...
by Chastityat61
Wed Jan 01, 2020 11:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New dice for the new year
Replies: 14
Views: 3318

Re: New dice for the new year

Was hoping for some movement on the part of the wife towards my desire for chastity. This has not happened and I have lost the drive to self lock. She has made it clear, there is no desire on her part to participate in chastity play. So I guess that's it. Maybe at some time down the road, but for no...
by Chastityat61
Tue Dec 31, 2019 6:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5515
Views: 2172238

Re: "Hello world" thread

Welcome. lots of good stuff here.